Resigning
I'm currently in a toxic environment at work and I'm burned out. I have a boss that acts worst than a toddler having a tantrum. If my boss isn't yelling and belittling people, then he's using derogatory and profane language, or he's simply not around and unavailable. So dealing with him is like jumping from one extreme to the next. I have tried to talk to him about it, but that's only results in him talking over me and getting mad. Meetings w/ him are uncomfortable to say the least.
To make matters worst, my team calls out every other day leaving the department short staffed, and then complain that they're overwhelmed with work. I've tried meeting w/ them more frequently and being transparent to no avail. I have tried to shift work responsibilities around, but no one wants to give up their duties, and they all withhold information to hold on to some perceived power.
I have spoken w/ HR and set up coaching for my team. That hasn't been successful, and HR advised me to get out because it won't get better. The department has had high turn over in the past several years (I have been here a year) and that doesn't seem to be a concern to anyone.
I haven't been able to find another position yet, but I'm ready to leave. I don't want to give notice. It's not about sticking it to my employer; I'm simply TIRED! I constantly have a headache and I'd like to just quietly go and recover from all of this. To give notice or not, that is the question. I know there are times and situations when it is okay not to give notice, but I wanted to get the community's thoughts. Thanks in advance!
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Need some advice:
My current company is pushing for “globalization”. They’re expanding into different countries and as a result are trying to find ways to offload departments to other countries for cheaper labor.
I’ve been job hunting for a few months and recently had an interview for a position with a company for a payroll analyst position. I didn’t get that position but the recruiter asked if they could do an interview process for a different position with their company. This position is customer facing (which I’m not excited about) and it pays less but it’s basically been insinuated that the job is mine, I’m just going through the normal motions.
Ive done research on the company and position and while people love the company the position has terrible reviews. People have stated being severely overworked and underpaid being the common theme to all the reviews.
My current company has me scared of lay offs and the other position scares me because it sounds like I’ll be stepping from a pan into the fire.
Do I stick with the devil I know? Or go for the damn near guaranteed new position? The recruiter stated that the pay could jump in six months if I do well but that doesn’t really bring me any confidence.
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My Officemate Keeps Complaining About Our Boss
Has anyone else experienced this? My officemate constantly complains about our boss and their management style. It’s starting to affect the team’s morale.
I understand everyone has their opinions, but I’d love to hear how others handle similar situations. Any advice?
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What to do? My boss shared personal medical information about me to a coworker.
I shared the information because I needed to adjust my schedule and had to explain why. Hr was also told why as they work hand-in-hand and everything HR runs through my boss.
Now my coworker who told me this was sick to her stomach for a week and was acting strange when she saw me. She finely came clean and told me she needed me to know that she was told this very personal thing and wasn't comfortable knowing it. So my question is- what would you do? I feel my boss should be written up for this, but I am wondering how to go about it
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Hi! Looking for quick ways to improve relationships with coworkers.
What strategies work best for you? Thanks.
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