Hello there. I’ve lived in the Carolinas all my life and my kids father is here too. I was offered a great job about 8 hours away. I have always been the care taker for my kids..no offense to the dad..so I accepted the job. Some people feel like I should’ve had a conversation with the father of my kids but I don’t because he doesn’t help financially and honestly he doesn’t do much. His mom does a lot for my kids but he’s still the dad. I’m not able to find this great opportunity where I’m at and I accepted the job knowing that I would also be away from my family. Everyone is just a plane ride away. I am taking my kids with me. Should I have had a Courtesy conversation with him? Or let him add his input? He knows I’m leaving. I’m not just disappearing with the kids.