How do I handle a situation where a colleague is continuously taking credit for my work?
April 6,2022 at 5:57PM UTC (Edited)
Not just project leadership the actual work. Do I make a joke about this or does anyone have any other suggestions? I initially put it down to us being acquired and people jockeying for position but it is getting worse, including sometimes even repeating what I’ve just said in a more long winded way and using “I” rather than “we” or even acknowledging me. I know that I overuse the word “we” and I like to give credit to all involved even if their contribution is minimal so maybe I’m causing some of the problem by giving him permission to claim credit? Any feedback gratefully received
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