I'm 40 years old with no career no real educational back ground and really no experience with anything.
January 22,2021 at 2:08AM UTC
I'm smart and have common sense but never found my way . Is there hope out here? Is it possible for me to be found since I've been lost? What do I do since I lost my business and now on my ass? I'm depressed and discouraged and really feeling lost and alone. Please help me.
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I have been asked by my full date of birth as an application identifier by several prospective employers.
This is in addition to the last 4 of my SSN
Is this legal? And isn’t this asking for having your identity stolen?
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How do we get rid of toxic teammates?
I joined this team a little over a year ago, and unfortunately, I think we’re going under. We have two problem people on our team. The first one, I’ll call Bob, and the second one is his manager, Sally.
Bob appears to have no specific accountabilities, which results in him being all over the place and having his hands in others’ accountabilities (in a sneaky way). He has been given feedback about this behavior from nearly everyone on the team, and most of us really dislike working with him. Additionally, Bob does not actually execute any work. He talks, talks, talks - but no actual execution can actually be attributed to him.
The problem is, his manager is the same person, and they knew each other from a previous role which is why he was hired. His manager will not correct his behaviors, and his manager spends most of her time competing with other team members at her level.
We will be going through a reorganization soon, and not only am I terrified of losing my job, I’m terrified that somehow Bob and Sally will come out on top.
Is there anything that can be done?
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I'd love to hear about the worst job interview experience you've ever had!
I'll start. I had an interview as a VP for a very "corporate" company. I dressed in my usual black suit, white shirt for this interview (this was pre-COVID) and headed out on the subway to Manhattan. I took off my jacket, folded it over my lap, had a seat. After about 15 minutes on the train, the train kind of lurched and the man standing in front on me swayed and spilled his coffee down the front of my white shirt. (he felt bad!)
My typical luck. I didn't want to be late for the interview so I got off the train and looked around for something, anything to buy quickly (I only had about 20 minutes). I found a NYC gift shop, ducked in and found a pretty decent looking white woman's t-shirt that had a great round neckline. I thought I could put it on under my jacket and it would be a good look. The only thing was, it said "Suck it, I'm a New Yorker" on the front. But with the jacket buttoned up, you couldn't see it. I bought it, the owner let me change in his bathroom (a miracle in NYC) and I got to my interview 5 minutes early!
I interviewed with 4 people over 3 hours, and I was feeling pretty good about it! The final interview was with the COO and he wanted to take a walk from one building to another, which we did. It was summer and probably 90 degrees. When i got to the other building 4 blocks away, I was sweating bullets. Instead of going IN the building, he wanted to sit outside in their courtyard and talk more (schmuck). I had a napkin in my pocket and was wiping my face when he started pressuring me to take off my jacket. I kept declining and he seemed to be angry, so I explained about the coffee and the change of shirt. He still pressured me so I took off the jacket and he saw the shirt.
Many people would have found my initiative a good thing and laughed at the shirt. He did not. Interview over.
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How To Answer Reason For Leaving…
I have an interview coming up next week. My current employer is a start-up technology company in the Real Estate space so business has declined drastically and I’ve been able to keep my job even after 4 layoffs. Morale is at it’s lowest ever and we all see the writing on the wall that the company may not be in business by end of the year. Everyone I know is interviewing. When asked why I’m leaving, should I just be honest and say the company isn’t doing well financially and that’s why I’m considering leaving or should I say I’m feeling stagnant because at this time there’s really opportunities for advancement? I’d love everyone’s advice. Thank you!
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I would love to connect and learn!
I have been soul searching and I would really love to explore other careers.
Currently, I am project manager with a focus in implementation of digital platforms across the nation. I do enjoy the role but I feel its time to take a step into another direction. Would anyone like to provide insight or connect directly on the careers listed below?
If you are interested in connecting please let me know below and I’ll msg you directly. I am going to stay anonymous for job security purposes.
Partner Success Manager
Project coordinators that work with other project coordinators
Any behind the scenes job that pays really well at a remote capacity!
Hope to hear from folks! If you have a career you love and it’s not listed. I would love to hear about that as well. Thank you all ?.
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I was in the interview process for a role that was defined as Operations with a heavy focus on document writing.
After sending in several writing samples, and even seeing work other candidates had completed, I was told that the role is being rethought.
Further context- the CEO is a child of the owner and it is a family-run business.
The self-employed recruiter was my main point of contact, who has worked with the family for many years. He gave me full transparency into the ups and downs.
Even though I didn’t get the role, its a great reminder that we are all playing the game, and it’s important to pay attention to all the players, as well as what happens on the field.
I’m brushing off this let-down and moving on. And I know the right role is out there for me.
Sharing this because I know I’m among lovely company here.
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