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Jackie Prutsman
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09/04/20 at 5:49PM UTC
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You can ALWAYS have what you want

“I’ll never make that much.” “I’m not good enough.” “I can’t have that.” Let’s discus worthiness and why these feelings come up. I’ve found that it’s often a combination of a few things: -past experiences and how we’ve internalized them. -unmet expectations (I.e. we wanted something and we’re disappointed so we tell ourselves it’s because we’re not good enough) -And fear. Fear’s job is to protect us but it doesn’t have all the details so sometimes it’s going to tell us we’re not good enough because it’s trying to protect us from attempting the thing it views as a threat. All of these things can be helped with the practice of identifying the limiting belief (I.e. I’m not good enough, I can’t have that, I’ll never make that much money, etc.) and either just acknowledging that it’s just a limiting feeling (sometimes that’s actually enough to help) *or* disproving it by journaling out why you know that’s not actually true. My friend, you’ve got this. It’s already yours. You just have to DECIDE it’s yours and work through the “muck”as it comes up. But you’ve got this. You've always got this.

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Stephanie King
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09/12/20 at 12:21AM UTC
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