Perfectionism - the many faces
Are you guilty of perfectionism? I know I am. And I'm not saying this while I'm trying to ace an interview or secretly admire my personality. It is getting to me and I am at a stage where the worst of me is out there. I am at a new and complex job where people are not too kind. As much as I can put the blame on others, on introspection, the real problem lies within me. I have been successful in the past and it has gotten to me in such a way that I am not able to accept my current reality. As women, I know we are taught to be perfect and live by those high ideals. This is a shout-out to all those women out there that I see you - you are perfect, but the world and circumstances won't be. So, take it easy, give yourselves a break. I find this article of Margaret Rutherford especially insightful - https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-get-over-never-good-enough-a-practical-guide
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Growing my resume!
Do you consider courses/professional certificates on Coursera to be valuable and/or worth the time? I have degrees, but there are some certifications that I feel would bulk my resume if Coursera is respected.
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Is anyone else experiencing significant challenges in their job search these days?
As a creative director who left their job earlier this year, I've been receiving rejection emails left and right from automated systems. Am I the only one facing this, or is there something unique happening in the job market?
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I really loved the job fair we had today, very useful, and made some new connections.
I advise others to attend the next event.
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Sending positive vibes to everyone!
Just felt like the community could use a sprinkle of encouragement today.
I may not know your exact situation but I wanted YOU to know that I SEE you and I'm PROUD of you. I know it's a weird time (a lot is going on) but you've got this. Breathe through it and DON'T GIVE UP.
You are capable.
You are supported.
You are valued.
You are loved.
You are needed.
You are powerful.
You are light.
You are amazing.
I hope everyone has a good rest of the week.
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Hi!
I am new to this website!! :) I am looking for a remote opportunity! I don't want just another job I want a Career, a future, somewhere I can develop and move up. I am dedicated, loyal, detail oriented, etc. I don't have a lot of experience, but I am willing to learn and work hard at anything I do, I have an open availability as well. Thank you in advance for your time and consideration.
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to add to the 4 months notice denied PTO
I am loyal and been with the company for more than 25 years ; good attendance and employee of the month and season too.
I think he should cut me a slack and approve it. ( still on the works but made me really upset )
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