What jobs have been successful for you in the past? Are you currently under a doctor's care? Are you learning ways to live successfully with your condition? ADHD is measured on a scale. Depending where your are on the scale there are many treatments available and working with a professional can make a huge difference in how you function and accommodate your ADHD. Deciding you cannot work successfully is probably not accurate. You just need a program to assist you. While being a housewife is fine if that is what you want to do. But working outside the home is absolutely possible (many people with ADHD are quite successful) but you need to get some help and be determined in your pursuit of solutions that work for you.