I have an interview with HR this afternoon and I'm not in a good place.
I exercised this morning and now reviewing the JD and practicing interview questions. After months of searching for a new role, I feel beaten down and scared to even start this new round.
Every time I interview, I get invested and can picture myself at the company. While I know not to do so, even getting an interview feels like a win. I give my all to preparation and for months haven't made it past the final rounds. I'm starting to feel like I'm wasting my time while watching my savings dwindle.
I'm scared all the time and that's to affect my sleeping. I've looked into part time work and they only want younger employees and retirees. This area doesn't have clothing stores etc. so it's not easy to find even holiday work and I've been submitting applications.
Circling back to interview, how can I get myself in a better mindset. I feel so defeated that I know this isn't the right attitude going in but I'm so scared to start again while recognizing that's the only way I'm going to find a job. I'd appreciate your advice!
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Jessica Ferland
Sometimes a little reframing can help. Interviews are as much for your benefit as the company's. They are looking for the right fit and you are doing the same. They may or may not make an offer, but you may also learn during the interview process that they are not right for you.
If there is ever an opportunity, perhaps follow up with the recruiter or HR to get feedback on your interview? It may not be you, it could very much be an issue on their end. Maybe the job was cancelled or something.
Mia
Consider how valuable you are and what you can bring to this organization because you believe in you and so many others believe in you too! Reflect on all the accomplishments you’ve made professionally and personally. Think about what you’re grateful for and how many others you’ve made impact on.! You got this!