It's been 5 months since I started my Second Job at a LPG company. I got excited because it seemed like a competitive, has hard working employee and i could see that they are very serious about their job and it's really true.
On my first month my boss scolded me for not updating him about the requirements for travel for our Technicians. This job was given to my colleague and I really do not the idea about the concern. I just accepted all the insults and let it pass by since I believed he was just strict with those things.
1-3 months I noticed that he was so hypocrite. I am really sorry for the term but he really did not listen to his people. He cut out people when they needed to explain their side. He always believed he was right. He even insulted my Engineer that he has a big eyes but he can not get things right. Our Engineer is just a newbie but he always got humiliated in front of me. My boss was the one who told me that our Engr has a crush on me but I surely think that he intentionaly scolded him right IN FRONT OF ME.
My 4th month was the worst. I stayed in inside the company because they offered me a room to stay. It was really unsafe that it came the time that two thieves climb up my room at 3:00 am, opened my windows and tried to steal my bag using their hook. I really caught them in the act and i almost died of shock and nervousness. It was really traumatic but I suffered it alone without a proper counseling from our HR. No one talked to me even my boss like nothing happened. I let things pass by again hoping that I could still overcome things and move on. But the next one really hurt me. I had a Tuberculosis and I told my boss about my situation so that when I needed to absent for my consultation, atleast he would know when I will take my leave for my consultation. He insulted me with my disease. God, i did not ask for this. He told me "that is why you apply here because you have a disease?" "You should ask your Doctor, Doc, if i eat more will I become fat?" things like that. Imagine him saying those hurtful words with a smile and enjoyment in his face.
I really can not take the attitude of my boss. I do not know what to do. I am afraid that I could not achieve the job that I will be happy because I do not have a degree. I only have a college diploma and I am stuck with my boss until now. I always think of it all the time and it's really stressing me out.