Support & Suggestions,

Support & Suggestions,

I recently read an article by, Liz Ryan, who said to someone else in a similar boat, This place does not deserve you now, if it ever did. Your COO doesn’t know how to build an organization or how to utilize the talents they have on their team.

Re. training the bosses

What she doesn't give advice on , is how to make the environment tolerable. I've been feeling conflicted by being "Uncooperative," because I'm paid $13 per hour less than two new colleagues who are asking to be shown how, where, what repeatedly on the same tasks. I've lead them to the water, there are many available resources but they have shown considerable disrespect in receiving help by me. They have worked together and are very close, they say things department meetings like "oh.. this is how THEY did it." while scoffing with how they know differently and questioning it. to a reasonable person this is very disrespectful.

Alternatively, I've been in their shoes and successfully self teach myself how to do something to prevent mistakes in my duties/task the work I was hired to do. Let me be clear, taught myself how to do the former CFOs task so that the duties I carry out from their direction doesn't impact costly mistakes.

speaking of mistakes, Now that "I" found a costly mistake and fixed it. How can I point out to these people that with the retirement or resignation of legacy colleagues job responsibilities or tasks aren't being absorbed by their replacements.

and how can I voice the concern that those duties are being reassigned because of their unwillingness to learn it and increasing the workload of legacy individuals who had a part in those projects but were not the originators or lead of those projects. How can we negotiate if we are to become the lead would our pay be eligible for renegotiation?

To be very clear: In that example these people (including myself) were shown how to do the data entry of a project but not shown how to put a project together and what resources this information exists, government agency (if applicable) and who should be involved.

When I asked for a raise and opportunity to promote I have and others too have slapped with a 3% increase for the last two years while new people continue to be paid at a disproportionate rate without absorbing or knowing how to do the work they were hired to do.

Of course, I am looking and actively applying. I screen for red flags to prevent jumping from my current place to one just like it.

I close with this, I'm have good rapport with all levels of my colleagues including the CEO. The comment that is institutional is that the administration is rotten and by many of my colleagues I'm greeted with smiles, hugs, told often how I made their day and that many people stay away from these hiccups I mention.

These people have 15+ years and say how it has become much worse. I cringe knowing how majority of those people I provide services for are unhappy, treated unfairly by the c-suite.

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  1. Anonymous

    Research and outline the disparity of roles, responsibilities and pay.
    This can be done with online sources like LinkedIn and glass door and others along with interviewing recruiters and professional HR reps outside your company. Create a well thought out proposal and make constructive suggestions how to better capture missing tasks, better synergy within the team and ways to improve moral and culture.

    If you want to lead improvement then you start with a solid plan and then you campaign first with the C-suite then mid level management. Share you vision and show your skill in pinpointing proposed/needed change and offer constructive suggestions to improve.

    You can complain, say no one will listen and spread the angst and throw up your hands or harness your will to improve and advocate for change. You are either part of the change or you are doomed to suffer.

    This effort will not begin with instant pay adjustments and a reorganization of methods, practices and reorder. This begins with you (because you are asking for change) and whoever you can recruit to support your plan. You say you are beloved throughout the organization and share a great rapport with everyone. Well now its time to use that influence.

    You say you need help. Here is a start. Most people just quit because they don't think this is their job. But I've seen a single person turn a company around from the bottom up. So I know it's possible. But it takes a leader.

  2. Anonymous

    Unfortunately, the generation that is moving forward into the workforce, is knowledge short, but Education heavy. They expect a lot but give back very little. They are being thrust into management positions , simply because they have little thoughts of corporate higherarchy, and they simply demand a management job.They're in over their heads, but they are ridiculously confident. When they mess up, they simply move on with very little knowledge gained, besides the title they possessed, which they then parlay that title in to bigger position, which they are again unqualified for. They have 590,000 LinkedIn friends, and aren't afraid to ask for favors. Opposed to this is the Generation x who are right now turning 45-55 years old, they where brought up by baby boomers who taught them to stay at a job 30 years and you will have a nice little life and pension and go die in Florida. This did not happen, the generation x has been working through 3 recessions, market crashes and a housing crisis, during the peak years that they began to buy homes and start families. They have been left underwater and underemployed. This is why no one has knowledge anymore. Companies are not promoting from within. They are not working at keeping talent, they are just not interested in it. Corporations are unwilling to work with work with talented people who already know how things work, instead they hire newly graduated idiots, who are not qualified and honestly unwilling to work for it. This is going to be a problem in the next 25 years, as higher education becomes increasingly more of a joke, there will be no one left in charge to replace the knowledge that is being driven out.

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