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Anonymous
09/18/20 at 3:42PM UTC
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So when i was younger i had these friends, who would always hang out with out me. When i confronted them about it they said it was because they had known each other longer than me, so they needed time with just each other. I believed them because i had just gotten from that school and believed i needed to be grateful that they wanted to be my friend . not that long after one of them (lets call them friend A) asked if they could have a sleepover with me at my house, and i said yes. She wanted to invite my friend from my old school which i thought was odd, but i said yes. I invited the other girl and the girl from my old school and it was a plan. THen one girl got sick and couldn’t come, and the girl from my old school said that her dad had to cancel. So it was just me and friend A. Then, when she found out the girl from my old school wasn’t coming anymore, suddenly her dads birthday is that day, and cant come. I told the girl that was sick about it nd she thought she was lying. It turns out she only wanted to come over to ask my friend from my old school out because they liked eachother. There are so many more times when they acted like this, but i just wanted to know if this was considered toxic?

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Cara Houser
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09/18/20 at 3:58PM UTC
Sounds unhealthy. Trust is key in any relationship and it is lacking here. Friends who act like actual friends are honest and supportive of one another, and don't lie, use, or undercut each other. Try to build on friendships that have mutual respect at the root.
Alicia Picone
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09/18/20 at 3:20PM UTC
I don't know if I would consider it toxic, but in my opinion, these friends are all a waste of your time.

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