Working with the 'over the top boss'

So I recently started at a new job. I was offered the position because I had a relationship with both the VP (she was my former manager) and the manager was also someone I worked with. I really enjoy working with both of these women and they are amazing! Our new director is awesome, I love his energy but I can see that my manager is sometimes a bit turned off by him. For me, this type of leadership is great!! But I can see where this might turn off those that are not as excited - if you get what I mean. How do you handle working with someone whose energy doesn't match yours? Either yours is more over the top or even keel. How do you help those around you understand what makes you feel most comfortable.