Being Different
Please tell me, what's wrong with being different? I say absolutely nothing! Here's why: God created us...right and He makes no mistakes, that is, if you are a true believer.
I have had many encounters where people treated me differently because I am different. Rather than run from it, I embraced it! I encourage you to do the same. Being different can mean many things to many people. It can be something as simple as the way you look, talk (the sound of your voice), walk, act, etc.
In one of my encounters, I was ostracized for being quiet on the job. I was an excellent worker; good at what I do; professional and quiet when necessary. I was hit with opposition in ways you could not imagine. Whywas this a problem for some people in the workplace? It was my chose to not be in clicks, engage in office politics and gossip about others. I have very strong work ethics, kind, polite and believe in treating people the way I want to be treated. I made a conscious decision to do what I was hired to do as oppose to forming meaningless relationships with some coworkers who built their self esteem by tearing down others. You know, the ones who love to control other people when they feel a since of power or control, depending on the position they hold or the person(s) they are connected to. They use this tactic to draw people in. Some can be so petty, frivolous and jealous. OMG, do not let them be in a position to influence and not to mention, when it is your own boss leading the pack.
For a longtime, I could not figure it out. I initially thought something was wrong with me. However, I have learned over the years, it is nothing more than people who pretend to hate or dislike you openly but admire you secretly. Let's call it what it is, insecurity and self-doubt. Some think by showing admiration for others take away their strength. I say it makes you stronger when you can be truthful and complimentary, women especially. Some tend to think we cannot admire and respect each other. Make sure this is not you. Learn to own being different and embrace it in others.
Remember, that difference in you is nothing more than your light shinning every time you enter a dark place. Know that the moment you show up, darkness is waiting to put your light out. I say, in moments like this, let your light shine brighter and brighter. Stay true to who you were created to be and let others see the strength you possess in the gift of being different. You are an original. Shine!
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Yes, your resume matters, but it’s not the magic key. Too many job seekers spend weeks tweaking bullet points while ignoring the bigger picture: Are you applying to the right roles? Are you networking? Are you tailoring your applications?
A polished resume supports your strategy, but it doesn’t replace one.
You could have the most beautifully written resume in the world, but if you’re applying blindly online, not leveraging connections, or chasing roles that aren’t aligned with your skills, the results will still be disappointing.
Here’s the truth: Job searching is a full system, not a single document.
Want results? Focus on:
- Clear goals
- Smart targeting
- Consistent outreach
- And yes, a great resume that reflects all that.
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Need some answers
I don't know what I am doing in my life right now. I have never been confused.
Let's start with my professional life. I have wanted to quit for so long, but there has been no job offer. Struggling every day.
Personally, I am in a relationship and we wanted to get married, but the guy's parents are not ready because I am 2 years older and different caste. They are just like I am not matching their criteria. Now, he is ready to leave his parents and marry me, but how do I convince my father to get us married? He is a heart patient, and I can never leave my family. My parents have done a lot for me, and I can't go against them. I can be a rebel and not marry anyone, but is it sensible to ask your father to get you married to the guy whose parents are not ready to even meet me?
So tired of everything now.
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? Truth time: Most resumes don’t stand out—and that’s exactly why so many job seekers get ghosted.
Your resume isn’t just a list of jobs. It’s your first impression, your pitch, your permission slip to get in the door.
After working with hundreds of job seekers, I’ve noticed a pattern: the best resumes aren’t just “well-written.” They’re strategic. They show value, impact, and intention.
But here’s the thing—we all approach resumes differently. So I’m curious…
What’s helped you land interviews (or stand out in a sea of sameness)?
And if you’re feeling stuck? I’ve got resources to help. ?
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#JobSeekers
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Trying to avoid pressing my nose up against the glass too much
I found out last week that our boss took a few team members on a leadership seminar trip. I feel like I should have been invited as well. I've done a great job, reviews are stellar, they give me impressive raises, and I've been hitting several milestones. The only thing these particular employees have over me is that they've been with the org for a few years longer than I have-- and, as if it should matter at all, they have political connections within our org (friends/family). Still, I have solid industry experience that matches or surpasses theirs. Not sure why I was overlooked. Maybe it's just not my time?
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Post-Interview Follow-Up: Timing, Tact, and Templates
That awkward in-between time after an interview… Do you wait? Do you follow up? Here’s a breakdown of what to do (and when).
https://www.market-connections.net/blog/post-interview-follow-up-timing-tact-and-templates
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Do recruiters care if you reschedule the interview?
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