My Manager is a bully- pitting teammates against me
Hi Ladies of Tech,
I have reached my breaking point with my toxic boss and coworkers. i am a high achieving, smart and savvy woman. My boss is threatened by me and so are my coworkers. They bullied me on a call telling me my work was not needed. I am beaten down. I spoke to my bosses boss who I have a great relationship with. He is also drinking the toxic kool aid. Now blaming me for not making it work with her.. That we are oil and water.. (gaslighting) when two months ago he said all the executives above him will totally support me.... i cant deal with her micro managing and undermining anymore!! How can I get out of this situation unscathed?
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