Context: My husband and I both work and we have built up a quite a saving. But we don't own a house yet and have two young kids and we live in NYC (SO expensive).
My husband's parents recently asked us how much we make, and we told them. And yesterday, they called us and said they want to get monthly allowances from us. It wasn't a big amount, but immediately, I felt uncomfortable. But my husband, without discussing with me, just told them ok because in his mind, we have enough & what they asked for was not that much. I didn't say anything at the moment because I wanted to think this out. Does anyone have a similar experience and/or have some advice on this matter?