Marriage is a Learning Experience

Question

Marriage is hard and they don't tell you that enough before you sign on the dotted line. I have been married for two years and it's been a rollercoaster. How do you and your spouse get over the bumps in the road that inevitably pop up?

Anonymous · Answer

I have been married for 15 years . It was not easy in the first five years... but with constant conversation with my spouse, we were able to get over with the adjustment period  of marriage and able to handle things we don' t agree with  .

Everyday is till  a  learning process.   We have  to be open minded and be able to express our feelings with our spouse in a positive way.

A relationship should always have a goal , and we always keep that in mind.   I always take my spouse into what ever decision and dream that I would like to pursue.

The financial aspect is important,  we do have our own set  and common financial obligations  and we  agreed  on that and settle things with our own or common fund.  ON savings , we likewise do communicate, consult and build on this.  After all  we will be  together until we  get old and both would agree that we  need to have  financial resources when we retire.
It is always important to have time for each other no matter how busy we are during the day.   A breakfast  or meal together, or if dining is not possible,     a cup of  coffee during the day  or tea before going to bed would be a way to share each others event.  
Our spouse should also be our friend as well.

WellMe · Answer

I'm not married so I don't have advice but very interested in what women have to say. Taking notes!

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