Some use it to justify unfair wages to men. Other's use it to justify right's to be a stay at home mom. Which is it...you want a career in the corporate world or you want the flexibility to exercise your right as a woman in a career as homemaker. Until we can stop blaming other's for our future, we will never be equal as men since we are not united in our actions. Imagine if men fought for their right to be a homemaker?