I'm going with to spend Thanksgiving with my S.O. and his family this year — and I think his father is racist.
My boyfriend (who's wonderful) and I have been dating for just over a year, and I'll be joining his family in Georgia for Thanksgiving. I've only met his parents once before (we live on the West coast), so I don't know them well. But based on the kinds of posts I've seen his father make on social media, I have STRONG reason to believe he's racist (he's a white 60 yr old man who's never lived anywhere outside of Georgia, for what that's worth). My boyfriend hasn't explicitly said this is the case (I'm sure it makes him uncomfortable), but I'm just nervous about the kind of dynamic I could be walking into next week... has anyone else dealt with this // how did you handle it??