I'm about to leave. Offer has been signed, sealed, and deliver. It's time to inform my current employer and I'm struggling to find the right words. I want to be authentic but kind (it's not my style to burn down the house as I leave.) My only thought right now is the whole "It's not you, it's me" thing because I'm really not a good fit (even though I do a great job.) I'm also hoping that the dramatic change I'm making will help mitigate the number of questions I'm being asked. TIA!