So basically my ex and I got into a nasty situation. I wasn’t going to hold that against him and I still let him get our son every other weekend. One day he just goes off and gets very disrespectful. Enough for me to stop allowing him to see his son. He tells me he will let me have sole custody and he can have visitation. He sends me this ridiculous agreement that he says a lawyer created. Part of the agreement says that when our son is with him I have to provide a car seat and clothing..it’s our child so everything I have you should have too..any way I refuse to sign the agreement without a judge signing off. In my state of an agreement doesn’t have a judges signature it doesn’t hold up. Meaning if he takes our son and leaves and I show the cops the agreement they can’t help me. I don’t have money for a lawyer and I think he’s just blowing smoke. I don’t think he ever had a lawyer I believe he jus wanted me to be stupid enough to give him our son and he take off. My dilemma now is do I even attempt to let him see him at all? Should I wait for a letter saying Ive been served? I don’t have any regrets about this situation because I haven’t done anything wrong. Some people in my family have their opinions and that’s why I’m asking.