During this pandemic, my husband lost his job from a major company where he work for over 30 years, he gave more to that company than he did to his own family, did not spend holidays, kids birthdays, family vacations, funerals etc.
Since then, he took a dive into the deepest part of the pool where he never had a single swimming lesson called depression. The company letting him go destroyed him tremendously he gave them more of his time, he filled in when management wouldn't and now he is facing depression and alcoholism, my question is how do I help him (already set up therapy for AA meetings) and tell him he needs to fight his way out of this and start looking for a job and learn from the past. I am angry carrying this load by myself. I am on furlough but I am not letting the pandemic and lost of a job beat me down. Why can't he fight like I am. Anyone else in this predicament?