My supervisor at my job dislikes me so much that she only talks at me 6 has been openly rude, has cliques and gossips about me behind my back with senior colleagues.
Unfortunately for her, the boss at my workplace suddenly threw her weight behind me and did it publicly. Now even colleagues that were nice to me, suddenly became aloof with me. What do you think?
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Anonymous
I'm sorry for what you're going through. It seems to me overall, that it's easier to be a man in the workplace because of women behaving in this way. I think it's possible she feels threatened by you. You must be a great worker! Keep your head down and work hard. It's really all you can do. Try to remain calm and friendly, and don't give anyone a reason to feed the gossip. Best of luck to you!
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"Curious, why do you think your manager dislikes you?"
My goodness - why this gaslighting question? This happens often. This question is passively placing blame on the victim of a situation. Surprised this question was not asked, "What have you done to correct this situation, to make those who you think don't like you, like you? What reasons have you given your coworkers to gossip about you? Do all you can to stop those behaviors."
When someone does not like you, it is generally obvious they do not.
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This is not a gaslighting question. It's a question of curiousity from what the original OP shared. Nothing in my reply was nasty but your final statement is your opinion, is it not? Allow the OP to reply, you don't need to jump in and tell others how to ask questions. It's okay to ask OPs questions to understand the situation so we can assist. This site isn't about posters like you jumping in calling us gas lighters. Be kind. Your reply was not.