Last 4 months taught me about the main thing I have ever taught: be on your place and you will never be frustrated, be upset hard. You will be happy.
What does it mean for me " Be on your place"?
During our life at first we are children, than we are elderly daughters, than we are colleges, than may be or not may be wives, moms. But all of our elderly lives we are women.
When we go away from our place (role), we suffer.
For example, I am a woman, and when I react to somebodies unpleasant words with offence, I become a child. And I loose my energy.
When I am an employee, and I try to direct to somebody to do something, but moreover I am not a manager :-), so I loose my energy.
Always, when I go out from my place (role), I loos my energy. What becomes a source all my problems.
Well, it's my thoughts. It doesn't matter that is right. But I have experienced it.
I wish you all much energy!