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Anonymous
10/27/20 at 9:46PM UTC
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Lifestyle & Relationships

This guy I have a crush on.

My crush removed me from his followers list on his Instagram. I asked him why, and he says that he did it accidentally and didn’t know it was me. He even blocked me on another platform! Any thoughts?

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Pearl Wong
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User Experience Designer
10/27/20 at 11:23PM UTC
If you chase a man they will run never chase
Yvonne Lee
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10/27/20 at 4:35PM UTC
Not worth your time! Move on.
Anonymous
10/27/20 at 4PM UTC
Thanks for the overwhelming response. It helped me a lot . You guys don't know how much it means to me
Claudia Hall Christian
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Great stories about good people in tough times.
10/27/20 at 3:49PM UTC
Gosh, that's really hard and painful. I'm so sorry it happened. To my mind, you can assume two things: 1) he's an idiot who treats his relationships/friendships as if they are disposable or 2) he wanted to do it and isn't honest enough to tell you. For me, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with either one of those situations. If he treats his Instagram relationships like this, then he certainly treats his partner like this. If he cannot be honest, then who wants that. To my mind, he's told you who he is -- you should believe him. The only question left is why are you attracted to someone so rejecting?
Anonymous
10/27/20 at 3:59PM UTC
In fact , you are right.
Anonymous
10/27/20 at 3:37PM UTC
He's not into you! Keep moving
Louise Troccoli
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Program Manager supporting Emerging Technology
10/27/20 at 3:29PM UTC
I agree with the others who have commented, it's a red flag/he did you a favor situation. Don't ever doubt yourself based on the actions of someone who hides behind the technology. If he cared, and there was an issue, he would have called you/met in person. Technology is no excuse to be rude to other humans. Good luck and let us know when you meet the right guy!
Mary Brodie
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I help companies build customer relationships
10/27/20 at 3:23PM UTC
He did you a favor. If he can't admit to you that he blocked you and why, you don't deserve his time anyway. He was never the friend or person he seemed to be. Find someone who wants to be with you.
SANDRA KOPECKY
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Lead Software Engineer/Systems Analyst / Adjunct
10/27/20 at 3PM UTC
walk away, finish that chapter, move onwards and upwards.
Katrina McNair
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Assistant Director
10/27/20 at 2:10PM UTC
Hello, My thoughts are that he is trying to politely tell you that he isn't interested in you. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. It's very painful. I have been through this myself and most guys that I have had a crush on don't want to hurt your feelings but they don't know how to tell you to your face that they are not interested in you that way. Especially since you confronted him about it an he couldn't tell you the truth. I would just talk to him in person and not follow him on any social media platform. He might need some space and he might only want to see you and be around you in person. I hope this helps . Sincerely, Katrina
Anonymous
10/27/20 at 2:22PM UTC
Well, it seemed obvious at first that he liked me, so I started liking him... he turned out to converse with me in a rude way
Katrina McNair
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10/27/20 at 2:31PM UTC
I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. You deserve better. The right person is out their waiting for you. Focus on becoming the best version of you. If you want to focus on getting or earning another degree go for it. If you want to focus on a hobby that you love go for it. Don't let anyone one stop you from being who you are. You are a wonderful person and anyone would be blessed to know you. Sincerely, Katrina
Anonymous
10/27/20 at 2:35PM UTC
That’s so heartwarming. You made my day. Thank you very much.
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Anonymous
10/27/20 at 1:59PM UTC
Call it a learning experience and walk away. I don't mean to sound harsh, but he's sending you a pretty clear message.

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