This guy I have a crush on.

Question

My crush removed me from his followers list on his Instagram. I asked him why, and he says that he did it accidentally and didn’t know it was me. He even blocked me on another platform! Any thoughts?

Anonymous · Answer

Call it a learning experience and walk away.  I don't mean to sound harsh, but he's sending you a pretty clear message.

Anonymous · Answer

He's not into you!  Keep moving

Mary Brodie · Answer

He did you a favor. If he can't admit to you that he blocked you and why, you don't deserve his time anyway. He was never the friend or person he seemed to be. Find someone who wants to be with you.

SANDRA KOPECKY · Answer

walk away, finish that chapter, move onwards and upwards.

Anonymous · Answer

Thanks for the overwhelming response.  It helped me a lot . You guys don't know how much it means to me

Louise Troccoli · Answer

I agree with the others who have commented, it's a red flag/he did you a favor situation.  Don't ever doubt yourself based on the actions of someone who hides behind the technology.  If he cared, and there was an issue, he would have called  you/met in person.  Technology is no excuse to be rude to other humans.  Good luck and let us know when you meet the right guy!

Katrina McNair · Answer

Hello,

My thoughts are that he is trying to politely tell you that he isn't interested in you.  I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  It's very painful.  I have been through this myself and most guys that I have had a crush on don't want to hurt your feelings but they don't know how to tell you to your face that they are not interested in you that way.  Especially since you confronted him about it an he couldn't tell you the truth.   I would just talk to him in person and not follow him on any social media platform.  He might need some space and he might only want to see you and be around you in person.  I hope this helps .

Sincerely,

Katrina

Pearl Wong · Answer

If you chase a man
they will run

never chase

Yvonne Lee · Answer

Not worth your time! Move on.

Claudia Hall Christian · Answer

Gosh, that's really hard and painful. I'm so sorry it happened. To my mind, you can assume two things: 1) he's an idiot who treats his relationships/friendships as if they are disposable or 2) he wanted to do it and isn't honest enough to tell you.

For me, I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with either one of those situations. If he treats his Instagram relationships like this, then he certainly treats his partner like this.

If he cannot be honest, then who wants that.

To my mind, he's told you who he is -- you should believe him.

The only question left is why are you attracted to someone so rejecting?

This guy I have a crush on.

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