It's such a privilege to look back on 2025 and see how far I've come.

It's such a privilege to look back on 2025 and see how far I've come. When you're in the day-to-day grind, progress can feel invisible—but perspective changes everything.

This year brought two major milestones: I got engaged ? and I am nearing completion of the Tech Elevator software development bootcamp.

Here's what no one tells you about career transitions: the imposter syndrome is real. When I started learning backend development, I constantly questioned whether I belonged. The bootcamp was intense—relational databases, object-oriented programming, RESTful APIs—and some days it felt impossible to see my own progress.

Just when I started feeling confident with backend development, we dove into React. And I was humbled all over again.

But here's the thing: I'm a stubborn learner. I refused to let React beat me, so I bought a Udemy course and worked through it module by module until the concepts clicked. That scrappiness? That determination to figure it out no matter what? That's what got me through.

2025 taught me the hard way that I truly can do anything I set my mind to. It's not about being the smartest person in the room—it's about showing up, putting in the work, and refusing to quit when things get difficult.

So here's to 2026 and whatever challenges it brings. I'm ready. ?

? I'm actively seeking junior/entry-level software developer roles in the Raleigh, NC area. If you know of any opportunities or want to connect about the tech scene here, I'd love to hear from you!

? Already working in tech in Raleigh? Let's connect! I'd love to learn about your journey and experiences.

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  1. Coach Nancie Kay Shuman

    I highly recommend success reviews. As a species, we are programmed to look at the negative (it's a survival instinct,) but we also benefit from taking a look at how far we have come! Good for the mind, good for the soul! Good work getting this far with your Bootcamp, I have no doubt you will be able to finish it with ease and grace. And congratulations on your engagement!

  2. Taylor Recalde

    I couldn't agree more! We really are our own toughest critics, aren't we? Taking a moment for a 'success review' was exactly what I needed to recharge for the rest of the bootcamp. Thank you for the vote of confidence and for sharing in my joy about the engagement. It means a lot!

  3. Christina Weber

    Thank you for sharing this with us, Taylor! It's so important to step back and reflect (and celebrate)! All too often, we simply move on to whatever is next without recognizing our accomplishments. Congrats on the bootcamp and on your engagement!

  4. SPQ

    Great work! Love that confidence and determination.

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