I once applied to manage a team I had helped grow from 3 people to 14.
I hadn't held a management position before, but understood the team's work and our relationships with other teams inside and out, having designed many of the processes myself.
I thought of myself as "ready" for the position and its challenges. Ready and eager for the growth and learning it would require of me.
Unfortunately my boss, the hiring manager, told me not to apply - that she wouldn't hire me for it. She chose one of the two men she did invite to apply - my peers - and he arranged to have her fired a few months later and took her job.
Of course, she may have seen failings or drawbacks in me then that I didn't see, but as I've led multiple companies since then and won an award for mentorship, I've concluded that her own gender bias played a part.
I didn't give up. I am still learning to value myself and help change the culture to encourage other women to go for positions and challenges they are "ready for."
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