quite honestly, you can potentially come back from it. But the problem is once you have a PIP it means you’re marked. If something bad happens and it’s genuinely a factor of things and not only your fault, you likely won’t survive it. I’m going to rant to my experience with this here.
in my experience I’ve only faced a PIP once. And it really was due to a “bad” manager (not a bad person) who was replacing an employee who got promoted. He didn’t want someone else. He wanted someone who came in and was operating at full capacity of the previous guy, fast. They put me on a $10M/year project (like 30% of the yearly site revenue) with a customer who did not want to yield or change anything on their side, and i was told this was my priority, that nothing else was nearly as important. I struggled for a year, in high visibility because the project was already one year “late” and then it was reassigned to my much more experienced coworker, who has yet to come up with a solution as well because it’s just a bad project. From then on, I noticed I was under way more scrutiny.
I was accused of not caring because I didn’t breakdown at work, meanwhile I was independently building a bunch of skills (with little visibility) so I could work independently on my projects because I wanted to work at a higher level and be able to push out things faster.
We had multiple shipments of material get delayed due to COVID and the recent war which held back validation timelines, and I was criticized as “being slow” when I cannot make backordered items appear out of thin air. Meanwhile I was responding to technical inquiries by customers at lightning speed, with plenty of detail and making sure to copy any relevant people. If it was out of my product group, I would hand off the customer to the proper person but also provide any information sheets I could as reference while they waited for that person to get to them.
i certainly wasn’t perfect, but I was trying with the inadequate onboarding and was getting complimented up the chain in the corporation for my presentations and handling of the projects. But if I wasn’t performing the way my boss wanted, it didn’t matter. If I wasn’t acting like that employee he had desperately wanted to keep, I wasn’t “working at a high level”. If I wasn’t visibly upset about roadblocks, I didn’t care.
i was pulled into an office with my boss and my HR the day I was due to put my notice in. They read over the PIP, gave some vague reasons that I politely tried to get elaboration on, and then once they asked me if I had any questions I took a moment before announcing my two weeks. It was an awkward moment, but it was proof of what I knew.
The year prior, was my ability to work at a high level good? Absolutely not. I would’ve understood a PIP, although I was hired as a transfer from a site with completely different products and I was in a completely different role.
The next year? I was making excellent progress and being praised by my peers for various things, but it didn’t matter. Once I had a target on my back, it was as if there was a fog over my actions, I was under elevated scrutiny and any delays were attributed to me. The PIP felt very vague because a lot of it was based on the previous year’s assessment of my ability, but my manager had not elected to get our HR involved until mid of the next year. Instead of proposing quarterly reviews to check in on me one on one, he just let it slide until he felt like it was time to hand the PIP because he didn’t “see enough progress”.
I didn’t sign the PIP because it didn’t matter, and I left two weeks later. I went somewhere with a better environment, with more transparency and a stronger emphasis on mentorship, and I flourished.
At my previous company, in three years I saw three promotions. But having experienced a “bad” manager for the first time in the third role, I can confidently say that PIPs are really just a way to say “we’re tired of you, prove your worth and maybe we will let you stay”. If you think the job is worth the fight and you aren’t set up to fail, go for it, but if you think the reasoning behind the PIP isn’t FAIR and you weren’t given the tools to succeed, get out. It’s worth it despite how scary it can be.
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