My mother was an executive secretary at the same company for nearly 20-years. She loved her job and had excellent bosses. Eventually, that company was sold and repurposed; so, she moved on to work for a local utility, and eventually moved out of state with my father to be closer to family.
She ended up taking a menial secretarial position at a food supply company in the city where she was born. Her boss was not in his position because he had degrees framed on the wall; in fact, he had a high school education and knew people who knew people. He didn't earn his way up, he was put there as a favor to his father, who was on the company board. He treated my mother like absolute crap, day in and day out. She felt it was his mission to break her. She expressed these feelings to trusted family members, but otherwise kept it close to her chest. Coworkers even witnessed the pervasive abuse, and the company knew it, too. Nothing was done.
She died nearly 16-years ago after a short battle with a rare, aggressive cancer. Her best advice I can share with you is this; "never put anything in writing you don't want others to see." If you don't want your company to see you put them on blast, then don't. The internet is rife with examples of this exact thing, and the consequences. Once you no longer work there, maybe; but, take note that other companies you may want to work for will look unfavorably at your online behavior. They may avoid hiring you for fear of what you'll say about them.
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