Looking for some encouragement today.

Anonymous

April 28,2022 at 2:49PM UTC

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Looking for some encouragement today. I had my heart set on a particular company and was told I was moving forward to next rounds. Days later I was informed that now I'm not.

I will say that my first interview did give me pause. The recruiter was rushed and curt in her answers with me. Her level of engagement was pretty non-existent. I gave her the benefit of the doubt because people do have bad days. Any words of wisdom from fellow job seekers?

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AnonymousApril 28,2022 at 2:59PM UTC
I am sorry and I am also a job seeker. I just started a week ago. So far 2 rejects emails. No calls or interviews. Please stay optimistic. This is my 2nd time going through this and you will come through. Continue to apply but not just anywhere, read the job description carefully. Recruiters can be rude, do not take it personal.
Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition SpecialistApril 28,2022 at 3:12PM UTC
I would consider this a bullet dodged.
You THOUGHT you wanted to work there and now you've had a chance to see a bit of how they operate.
By your own admission, the recruiter was rude and not engaged during your interview. This is when people are on their best behavior, trying to convince you to come work at their company.
We read every day on here about people who interviewed for what they hoped would be their dream job/company, then resigned from their current role and, because they didn't pay attention to red flags, wound up in a new situation that's not a good fit.
You've been spared that. I would recommend that you not "get your heart set" on any particular company until you learn more about them.
The good news is you're getting interviews. I'm a big believer in everything happens for a reason. Learn to be honest with yourself about what you really want and what will make your next opportunity a good fit for you - not some preconceived notion about that - but real facts you've learned after interviewing and really drilling down about the company, what it's like to work there, your potential new bosses management style, the exact responsibilities of the job - all the information you need to gather to make an informed decision.
Good luck!
AnonymousApril 28,2022 at 3:49PM UTC
Keep moving on to other opportunities. This one sounds like a hot mess.
Melissa MonsonApril 28,2022 at 4:43PM UTC
I agree with the both comments. You don't want to work for a company that wish washy.
AnonymousApril 30,2022 at 10:32PM UTC
Try to see the silver lining. Would you rather interview with a crappy person at a crappy company or be unaware of the crappiness until you get there. See it as you were being protected and keep pressing on. No need to psychoanalyze or read deep into it. Some people are shitty, some environments are shitty, plain and simple. Keep searching for that environment that will see the potential and value in you. Keep your head up and good luck!
AnonymousMay 1,2022 at 2:21PM UTC
Thank you. Agreed!!