Struggling.

Anonymous

March 23,2022 at 6:34PM UTC

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Struggling.

Started a new job, and don't like it. Keep getting other offers, and feel bad as nothing is exciting to me anymore. What is the point of changing roles if the grass does not look greener? Did anyone feel this way? What did you do?

I understand that many people are struggling to find a job, and I was in that boat too. So do not want to come across as tone-deaf. Just feel like I struggled so hard for something not worth it.

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Kryssy SantanaMarch 23,2022 at 8:44PM UTC
I'm in this position right now. I'm not sure what to do other than apply to other jobs that do soud more appealing and that I feel am qualified to do as well. It's tough.
Katie KristlMarch 23,2022 at 9:32PM UTC
What is it about the job that you don't like? The work, the people, the way the company operates, the values? All legitimate concerns!
You're right, you don't want to keep looking only to find more of the same, so I recommend taking a hard look at what isn't working and then making a conscious effort to find a different fit.
You're in a lucky spot, where you're receiving other offers, so you can be a little picky! Bide your time while you find the right match for you.
AnonymousMarch 23,2022 at 10:09PM UTC
Sounds like burnout and maybe a little depression thrown in.
I would rest and really let yourself get back on track. Maybe consider a bit if therapy to find out if the disillusionment is the job or your life in general.
AnonymousMarch 24,2022 at 1:19PM UTC
Perhaps it's not the job? Have you considered seeking some professional help with a therapist and talking to your doctor? We often assign a new situation in the future as the thing that will change us and make us happy when the problem is something else or there's some physiological imbalance happening. It's ok to ask for help and receive it. Feel better!