Got laid off at 8 months pregnant

Got laid off at 8 months pregnant

I recently got laid off and I am 8 months pregnant. I'm frustrated this happened and I don't really know what to do now. I feel like I should be looking for a new job, but also don't feel like the extra stress of looking for job would be good for me and my pregnancy. Any suggestions on what to do while I wait for the baby to come and then after? Thanks so much <3

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  1. Anonymous

    I’m so sorry you’re going through this, especially at such a sensitive time. It’s completely understandable to feel frustrated and unsure about what to do next. Right now, your health and your baby’s health are the most important things. It’s okay to prioritize that over rushing into anything that adds unnecessary stress.

    Here are some suggestions: Have you checked into unemployment benefits or any financial assistance programs that might be available to you while you're between jobs? These could help ease the pressure for now.

    If you can, you may want to wait until after the baby is due to begin an active search. It might be helpful to think about what kind of work you’d want after your baby arrives—something flexible or part-time, perhaps—and start small preparations like updating your résumé if you feel up to it. There might be opportunities for remote work or freelancing that you can explore later, which could give you a balance between earning and parenting. If and when you’re ready, let people in your network know you’ll be open to opportunities in the future. They might be able to keep an eye out for roles that fit your needs.

    Most of all, give yourself grace. It’s okay to take this time to rest and prepare for your new baby. You’re doing the best you can, and that’s enough.

    Take care and best wishes.

  2. maria rose

    Following up on this reply to the OP, it is a shame that the timing of your job loss happened to occur at your eight month of your pregnancy, but since you, the OP, mention nothing about your employment type of job and length of employment, assuming that you were let go ( laid off) as a discrimination act, should not be your first consideration, because that sounds more like a revenge move to gain more compensation than you are entitled to receive.

    Start with looking at the paperwork received when you were laid off—consult with a lawyer if you find the wording too ambiguous—what you are looking for is wording that defines this layoff as a temporary, making you eligible for rehire while the company undergoes reorganization , or a permanent layoff from that specific job position but you are eligible to be considered for another position, or you were fired because your position has been totally eliminated. If you were offered a severance package, you should be looking at that too. What you don’t want in the wording is that you were fired/laid off because of certain circumstances defined as non-negotiable incidents that are immediate termination as listed in your employment agreement. Now depending on your geographic location which determines the labor laws of employment and eligibility for unemployment benefits and maternity leave benefits, you should be able to apply for both types of benefits and the amount received will be determined by your employment record if you were being paid via a paycheck that had payroll taxes that are reported to both federal and your local state government. Again what is available for you depends on your geographic location, so don’t apply assumptions that may not be available.

    As far as future work, I am assuming that you need to work ( have a reliable source of income) to support yourself, your present physical condition may limit your job opportunities to short term employment and then after giving birth , unless you have a good support system, you will need to arrange and include in your budget childcare costs, plus you don’t know yet how you may change your lifestyle to accommodate raising a child who is not an accessory but one for whom you have a responsibility and your lifestyle is going to change. So you may be changing your career path plans to accommodate your needs. Start with getting the benefits you are entitled to—unemployment and maternity and once you have given birth, start looking for employment opportunities that will better fit your lifestyle then . Congrats on the new baby

  3. Anonymous

    This country has abysmal, if nonexistent, protections for pregnant workers. I am so sorry. Did you push for severance?

  4. Anonymous

    First, file for unemployment. The DOL UI Department will want you to be actively looking for work while paying you, so here are some strategies:

    While waiting for the baby to come, start preparing your resume and other job search materials (such as profiles on LinkedIn and Indeed). This will allow you to hit the ground running after you recover from labor and delivery.

    Make sure you can substantiate any requirements your UI claim requires (e.g., the number of applications).

    I know that dealing with a newborn while undergoing a job search is not an ideal place to be, but hopefully, you have some backup help.

  5. Zenzelai 18

    Hi there congrats on the new baby. During my times of unemployment, I found remote work and side jobs off of youtube. Side jobs included writing articles for print and online newsletters, teaching a hobby at local library 1-2 days a week or 1x a month. Also try local colleges for professor assistant and tutoring work. Hope this helps to lift your spirits.

  6. Anonymous

    Jobs on YouTube? Tell me more? Been looking for side work to supplement my paycheck for a long time but I work about 60 hours a week and I'm also disabled and waiting to have surgery. Need something remote where I can set my own schedule. Thanks.

  7. Anonymous

    Research you disability benefits and understand how your unemployment will work as well. Don't work unless you will net a subscription increase in your income.

  8. Anonymous

    So sorry this happened! Do you have severance? Or did you receive an option for cobra? Call the HR dept there and find out what if anything is available. If you can, rest, nest and prepare for the beautiful new life you’re bringing into the world. Update your resume now, get ready to submit after your 4th week after you have recovered some then make preparations for a sitter so you can interview. I think you will find something after the new year! Best to you and your newest bundle of joy!

  9. Anonymous

    I'm sorry to hear this. You can certainly apply to some jobs now - in reality most companies won't really evaluate anyone until after the next year. So anything you get now, you can use as practice for the job really want. Then when baby comes you can apply a lot more seriously and use the time off to dedicate to your baby and to interviewing. Congratulations on your baby.

  10. GirlBossanova934974

    BEFORE you SIGN any paperwork with the company, be sure you consult with an employment lawyer. Consultations are always free. See if you have a case. AND companies are hiring now. The election had many companies delaying normal hiring for 2-3 months and now many are scrambling to fill roles.

  11. Charise Van Liew

    Consultations are rarely free in major cities in the US. They often were a while back but no longer.

  12. Anonymous

    Damn, sorry that this happened to you. You could not pay me enough to live in the USA, work is just not something you should have to even think about during the first year of your baby's life.

  13. Anonymous

    Unfortunately layoffs are happening to a lot of people this year . It's not the usual bs against specific protected classes.

  14. Anonymous

    Did you mean to respond to a different post?

  15. Tricia Burroughs

    Looks like a bot

  16. Anonymous

    This happened to me many years ago and it was the best gift I could have been given under the circumstances. I was luckily able to work up until a few days before my due date, used my severance pay to carry me through Maternity Leave, and then collected unemployment while I conducted my job search.

    Give yourself time to grieve over the loss of your role, as you start to embrace this new role as a mother. It is okay to feel frustrated, angry, and scared. You may have a new perspective about what kind of role you want after the baby comes.

  17. Anonymous

    Casually and quietly look for roles right now. You never know. Spend time creating a resume that is current and spotless. We can't speak on how you're financially set, but I would look, and keep moving, getting fresh air, and try to reconcile this unwanted pivot. I know easy to type, may be harder to do. One day at a time.

  18. Barbara

    Definitely collect unemployment

  19. Maegan, Nike Sales Rep & Career Coach

    So sorry, as someone whose recently given birth - I can’t imagine your mix of emotions right now but you’re already a wonderful mom for thinking ahead.

    Something that can still move your job search forward without a ton of stress could be networking and meeting people online, that way you can start building relationships and getting on peoples radar so when jobs come open and you’re ready to work - you’re who they think of !

  20. Anonymous

    Call some lawyers about taking your case. You were discriminated against for being pregnant.

  21. Anonymous

    How did you jump to discrimination based on what OP shared? Unless she shared details below in the thread, I fail to see how anyone can automatically jump to discrimination.

  22. Anonymous

    We don't know if it was a layoff of several people. They didn't fire the OP.

  23. Molly F

    Nothing in OP's post indicates they were laid off due to pregnancy. That is a giant leap to a conclusion. We need more information before saying that.

  24. Sandy Pochapin

    If you were one of a group of people laid off it will be hard to prove discrimination due to pregnancy. If you were laid off alone (no one else from the company) you might have a case. I was laid off at 4.5 months but two others were laid off with me, they weren't pregnant so I couldn't prove anything. Sometimes your salary level alone puts a target on your back.

  25. Anonymous

    Not unless she was the only person let go. Jump to conclusions much??

  26. Anonymous

    In my state pregnancy disability starts 4 weeks prior to the due date and lasts till 6 weeks after the baby is born (8 for csection). After that since you were laid off you would be eligible for 6 months of unemployment benefits. Also in my state (NJ) there are additional FMLA benefits for new moms allowing paid leave up to 12 weeks after the regular maternity disability leave so it's 22 weeks total for regular delivery and 24 for csection. So depending on where you live you could be looking at a decent amount of time off to seek new employment while enjoying the new baby.

  27. Dawn McDonnell

    Question , laid off due to the company laying off people?

    Are you there long enough to receive severance pay? File unemployment immediately because it takes ( govt) time and ur at the end of 2024.

    Depending on the state you live in provides different benefits.

    psyments are different than during Covid so check. Make sure you continue with your companies health coverage! Cobra is expensive and kicks in with your choice.

    Get coverage to cover pregnancy.

    Also make sure this is not a lay off because your pregnant you can file a law suit with board of labor .

  28. Anonymous

    It's taking so long to get through interview processes right now that by the time you get something solidified, it might be reasonable to ask for a start date 6 weeks or so after your due date. I literally cannot imagine how stressful this is for you, but I also think that if you have the bandwidth to start looking and interviewing now, you'll likely save your future-self some stress. It's worth a shot, I think! Good luck out there, and congrats in advance :)

    You might also try to reframe it a bit for your own mental health: Right now, you have extra time to prepare for your lil one and do what you need to do without coordinating for mat leave!

  29. Anonymous

    You may be able to file a discrimation suit as pregnancy can be a disability in the meantime file for unemployment benefits

  30. Anonymous

    I would see if you can file for unemployment and get some emergency medicaid so you can go to the doctor, or if you have a spouse they can add you to their insurance.

  31. Heather Haaland

    I’m so sorry to hear this. This happened to me last March when I was 8 mo pregnant so I know it’s super stressful to deal with.

    100% file for unemployment, see if you have any FMLA protections,

    check if you have state coverage or if you’re able to extend your short term disability, and see if you are able to get on your partners health insurance (if you’re not already).

    Mother Forward is doing a session Tuesday Dec 10th to go over how you can take action. Find us on Facebook and Instagram

  32. Solange Ndeng

    I am currently facing the same situation. Worst of it all is that i don't have any savings. I am so confused and frustrated right now

  33. Anonymous

    First, I’m sorry this happened to you. I was fired when I was 4-month pregnant and it sucked. I was really scared about how I was going to provide for my baby’s things and pay for bills. I don’t know what state you’re in but I’m in CA. And CA gives mamas disability benefits once they give birth to the child — 6 weeks’ pay if vaginal or 8 weeks’ pat if c-section. Then you’ll can get 2 more months after that for bonding with the baby. So that’s about four months of benefits. And you get more than employment benefits. I got about $700 a week. It may be more now. I also filed for unemployment for the weeks I wasn’t working.

    Another thing, I have only one child but I think I brought the fanciest things that he didn’t need ? get all your things from Facebook marketplace! And that child only needs a onesie for the first 3 months of life! My son just wanted a boob and mommy, so you don’t need all those stupid toys media say to get infants. Now i’m smarter so I go to Facebook marketplace before buying anything. I always find a mama waiting to offload stuff to another mama.

    My advice, if you can, wait until after you have the baby to look for another job. You’re almost at the finish line. I was only 4 months so I had to find some work so I did contract work instead of a permanent job. But there were moments when I wasn’t working and I used that time to rest, focus on eating right, exercising, and reading books about child birth/being a parent. When I look back at my time, it was sort of a blessing in disguise that I was fired. I was able to fix up my new place, fix up the nursery, and have time to take walks and long naps. It was actually pretty awesome.

    Good luck mama. I know you’ll make the best decision for you and baby.

  34. Elizabeth

    Apply for unemployment. Maybe there's a severance package? Not sure if you can have unemployment if you have a severance package though. Either way, take some time off until you figure out what you're next move is.

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