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Feeling really down now

I have worked for this organization for quite a long time, which I now regret. Without going to particulars, I have been marginalized by a new boss and what is worse, I don't even find any sense in what they are asking me to do now. Desperately trying to find a new job, but finding it very hard. Will I be jobless at 58? I still need to work, but I can barely get up in the morning, I find my current job unbearable, but afraid to leave because of financial reasons. I have a health condition, I can't be without health insurance. Looking for some encouraging words.

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  1. Anonymous

    You have the valuable advantage of being highly skilled. Try to view this moment as the world nudging you to locate an even better job and give yourself an even better life than you have now. This situation is handing you a wonderful opportunity in its own way.

    It can be very helpful if you're able to remind yourself of everything you can be grateful for, even if it's something minor. It can keep balance in your life during this time.

    As long as you report to your new manager, see if they will agree to meet with you briefly either once a week or once every two weeks for the sake of good communication, goodwill, staying in touch. I have worked for several managers through the years who hired me, then promptly seemed to forget a large part of the skillset I possess. These brief chats might reveal that the new manager doesn't know half of what you're capable of. At the least, it's likely to help the situation instead of harm it.

    Keep smiling, you will get through this and likely find an even better situation for yourself.

  2. Anonymous

    You bring up some good ideas, but what do you do when your manager cancels 1-1 meetings most of the time or is constantly late and in hurry? I think this relationship is beyond repair. I just need to survive until I fond something else.

  3. Anonymous

    I was in the same boat as you - but 2 years older.

    Polish up your LinkedIn profile - if you have one; if you don't, please get one! Put yourself as "available to work" on your profile and recruiters will find - that is, if you don't find them, first.

    There is hope. Staying in a job that is detrimental to your mental and physical health is not good for you in the long run. Leave that place as soon as you find what you need... And, don't settle for less. You have experience. You have skills - highlight them. You just need to be confident in your ability to get the position. You are your best advocate. It doesn't hurt to list (line up) colleagues, friends and assets who will vouch for your abilities. Good skills - I won't say "good luck," luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity.

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