After five years of dedicated service, I’ve reached a difficult but eye-opening point in my professional journey.

After five years of dedicated service, I’ve reached a difficult but eye-opening point in my professional journey.

I’ve worked closely with my boss, often being told that I was instrumental in keeping the company afloat—especially during challenging times. I’ve gone above and beyond, contributing not just to operations but to the growth and stability of the business. Despite this, a recent conversation has left me disheartened.

I requested a raise—something I hadn’t done in years—and was told that the conversation wasn’t even open for discussion. The justification? That for where I’m located, I’m already “overpaid,” others in my role earn more than $15/hr while I’m paid under $4/hr. Hearing that, after everything I’ve poured into the job, has been painful and deeply disappointing.

It’s made me realize that loyalty and performance aren’t always met with fairness or appreciation. And it’s shown me that perhaps I’ve outgrown this role—especially if the person I’ve worked closest with doesn’t see my value or growth.

So, I’m choosing to take this experience as a sign: I’m now open to new opportunities. I’m looking for a role where my work is valued, fairly compensated, and where there’s room to grow. If you know of any opportunities in Virtual Assistance specifically Administration & Operations / Marketing/ Customer Support, I’d be grateful if you reached out or pointed me in the right direction.

Thank you for reading—sometimes, being undervalued becomes the clearest sign it’s time to move on.

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  1. Nina Johnson

    I'm not a hiring manager, but I recommend subscribing to the Rat Race Rebellion enewsletter. While you must always vet opportunities (especially remote ones!), they have a good track record of providing a variety of home-based job roles. I hope you find a place that values you!

  2. Rosemary

    Under $4/hour? Where are you located?

  3. Anonymous

    They are definitely taking advantage of you. That's not even minimum wage. GET OUT!!!

  4. Anonymous

    $4/hr.????? Are you receiving any other forms of compensation ?

  5. Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition Specialist

    Where are you located?

  6. Laura

    I just want to say I'm proud of you for realizing your worth monetarily. personally and professionally. Use your experience and confidence in your abilities and leverage it into a new position that truly values you. I'll be rooting for you!!

  7. Anonymous

    Thank you all for your kind and encouraging comments. I'm Nigerian, currently based in Lagos, and I'm aware that, unfortunately, Africans—especially Nigerians—often face negative stereotypes online due to the actions of a few. That said, I had hoped my work ethic and consistency had already shown that I am trustworthy and dedicated.

    I’ve officially begun my job search and remain optimistic about receiving offers. My goal now is to secure interviews, excel in them, negotiate a better salary, and channel my dedication and skills into a new opportunity where they’ll be truly valued.

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