i was laid off from my dream job after 20 years and I took a temp assignment in a doctors ’ office as a temp secretary for the next few months and it is horrible it’s been 7 days and day one someone made a comment about my clothes and every morning I come in and say good morning and get the silent treatment It’s the weirdest thing I was told business attire but coming from entertainment my business clothes are what my son calls fire I am older than most of the secretaries and I don’t think I should dress down to fit in My fashion is an extension of my personality and I dim my sparkle for no one but I’m ready to call the agency and ask for another assignment but on the other hand I am no quitter I have never had to deal with cliques at this level before The high school mentality is real folks that it’s almost crazy I’m seeking advice Lol The comment about my dress on day one was from another secretary btw not management For context I wore a simple olive leather shirt dress and leather boots I wear 2-3 piece suits leopard is my jam?

87 Comments

1. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 12:12PM UTC

   You should dress according to the culture, especially if you are public-facing. We all take on a persona at work which may or may not fit our preferences. I'm a flashy dresser when I can do it and bland when I need to be. I don't want my clothing choices to be a barrier to workplace collegiality. Be flashy with outerwear, purses, and jewelry paired with more conservative basics.

2. Beverly MolnarApril 25,2024 at 12:28PM UTC

   If by your own admission you don’t see a need to try to fit in, then don’t be surprised or complain when you are treated like a pariah.

3. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 5:22PM UTC

   because I am not sheep. I haven’t survive this long by blending into the masses. But thank you.

4. Beverly MolnarApril 26,2024 at 1:35AM UTC

   Then I guess you need to decide what is more important, to be accepted and get along with your co-workers or to be a rebel. Obviously you can’t have it both ways.

5. Beverly MolnarApril 26,2024 at 12:32PM UTC

   And to be honest, judging from your posts, I would guess the way you are being treated has more to do with your attitude than your clothes.

6. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 1:03PM UTC

   then don' t complain...
   you do NOT want to fit in professionnal setting,, ``sheep`` DO their job and what it takes to be profressionnal. this ain't a TV drama. bravo to you i guess. like many others said , your attitude speaks volumes... calling people sheep and such. at your age, it is pathetic. you need a reality check. you agency will be getting a call soon , dont worry you dont need to. :)

7. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 4:51PM UTC

   Supervisor stopped by desk to let me and another new colleague know we are doing a great job. My attitude is just fine. What’s pathetic is your spelling and trying to come at me over a post. Sounds like the word sheep is triggering. Too baaaad. Get it? Lol

8. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:58PM UTC

   THIS ' THIS 'THIS people love to MAKE choices , but then cry about the consequences.

9. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 12:29PM UTC

   Call the agency

10. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 1:05PM UTC

    Agency will NOT transfer her.

11. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:21PM UTC

    Bad advice. To get more temp gigs a worker needs to show adaptability and get positive feedback from previous assignments. They don't want to hear from someone complaining about clothes.

12. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 12:40PM UTC

    Really call the agency? Over your clothes? Adult time. I get it, in the one sentence you share you want to be you and be accepted. Rise above. Seems like your idea of business attire and theirs are conflicting. You're new, this is taking away what you have to offer to THE JOB, and it's affecting you. Again, I get it. Consider easing into what you consider business attire, first focus on building those relationships. It is not giving up your identity, it's allowing you to focus on why you're there. I bet, in no time at all you will learn what their version of business attire is and you will adapt with your own flair.

13. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 5:21PM UTC

    Lol I wouldn’t call the agency over clothes. The environment not being a good fit for me. The work itself I’m learning. Completely different from where I came from. All companies have their BS but 7 days in?

14. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 12:49PM UTC

    I appreciate your style but in a medical office.The dress is usually much more subdued... If that doesn't feel right for you then I would ask for another assignment

15. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 5:23PM UTC

    Subdued. Just say dull(kidding. This is my humor). But I get what you’re saying.

16. Jessica MinterApril 25,2024 at 12:52PM UTC

    Sorry about being laid off - it's a tough pill to swallow. Sounds like this current company is not a good fit. The beauty of working with an agency is flexibility - so I would call the agency. However, I would focus on the overall mistreatment, not just the clothes and self-expression. Work environments do vary and there are cultural standards that employees should adhere to. It would be good to be clear about what environment you will work best in. Good luck!

17. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 1:01PM UTC

    IMO anymore as a 50y old, social media has given EVERYONE the license to voice their opinions- ie your attire.
    Been there, but for me, the issue was not ordering take out.

    I think you should call agency, but they might not place you elsewhere because of contracts.

    Do your best to ignore the children and be proud of you!!

    If you feel it's your attire, tone it down some. I LIVE in Levi's and a hoodie on the weekends but going to the office (business professional), the cardigan and khakis come out- with the large hoop earrings- my "bling".

    It's a temp job and an income. Be thankful with the glass half full.

18. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 1:02PM UTC

    I think you have to just do you.
    If you feel comfortable dressing up which makes sense as an older employee to me as well, because that’s the work culture we are used to, I say let the younger women say whatever and focus on the work only. If you feel it’s a poor culture fit then that’s ok too. I would look for different opportunities if this continues to affect you.

19. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 1:18PM UTC

    Coming from entertainment to a doctors office is a huge shift on many levels so to not expect that is odd.

    You've entered another world.

    It's a temp gig. Find something more fitting wiyh an environment you can flaunt your personality and not feel so displaced. This is just not a fit.

    I worked in F1 Racing and I would expect a huge shift if I suddenly went to work for Costco. It's a new world. I stuck with what I know is my jam.

20. GirlBossanova934974April 25,2024 at 1:18PM UTC

    Candidly, I don't know why you should care what others think of your more formal attire. That's their problem. You be you and please continue to dress professionally. I have seen the "High School" mentality of some workers in the last 2-3 roles that I have had. The silent treatment is just plain silly and shows the immaturity of those around you. Last, I remember back in my mother's day when she was running a large department for the County of Los Angeles. In those days, if you didn't dress to impress, you might be sent home by your manager......This show up looking like whatever didn't go over too well.

21. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 10:03PM UTC

    I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated.

22. Nancy Stein-PizzoApril 25,2024 at 1:21PM UTC

    I don't know how much you're making as a temp at a medical office, but if you worked at a salon, they would LOVE the flashy clothes. There are numerous places where they would be thrilled to have someone who puts extra attention to their appearance.

23. ShannaApril 25,2024 at 2:01PM UTC

    It sounds like you have awesome style!

24. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 2:39PM UTC

    I hope the patients appreciate your sense of style! I think it's cool to see that when I'm the patient.

25. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 5:13PM UTC

    Today I’m in a navy leather wrap dress and green snake print tall stiletto boots.

    Patients are complimenting ?

26. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 2:49PM UTC

    Most people “dim their sparkle” in order to be taken seriously as professionals - the focus should be on what you do, not how you look.

    Having said that, if you can’t be happy dressing to fit the environment, then it’s not a good environment for you. Call the temp agency.

27. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 9:46PM UTC

    I’m sorry but this is false. Your first appearance is everything especially during an interview. No one has to where dark suits or slack pants & a gray blouse all the time. She isn’t a lawyer and even then some have better taste than others.

28. MarciApril 25,2024 at 2:52PM UTC

    I agree with your son, your attire sounds fire. I personally can't pull it off, but I appreciate those that can and do. Also, if it were me, I wouldn't leave because I think that sends the wrong message to the temp agency, if the management hasn't complained about you to you or them, then your job performance is good. You wouldn't want to lose future temp opportunities in the same type of field because that environment may be more appreciative of your style. So I say sparkle on, my lovely, sparkle on.

29. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 4:11PM UTC

    Do they have a dress code policy? I would find out and probably abide by it. While I appreciate your style, it isn't for a professional business office or doctor's office. I am surprised they don't have you wearing scrubs or something like that.

30. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 5:11PM UTC

    Scrubs?! Unless I’m helping to deliver a child no thanks! Ha! I have worked at Goldman Sachs and Lehman Brothers. I think I’m pretty professional without being dull.

31. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 9:44PM UTC

    The way she has described her outfits seem appropriate for her to be in the office. I’ve seen plenty of doctor secretary where fancy clothing boots , dresses, fashionable ear rings.

32. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:39PM UTC

    Exactly. Dress code given to me was business attire: skirt suits blouses. No jeans sweats or uggs. Leopard pussybow blouse with a suit, French cuff shirt with black leather blazer pants and patent booties. Navy blue faux leather shirt dress with dark green boots. Supervisor has no issues and some people on here are losing their minds. I’ve seen female doctors in stilettos at other offices. You can express your style and be professional ?

33. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 2:56PM UTC

    I agree with other commenters, if no one in management had said anything, just ignore the others. It sounds like you are confident in yourself and your style AND you are meeting dress code requirements. Being new is very hard, I totally relate. I’m sorry people made a comment to you, I’d say they’re a bit jealous that you are so stylish :) not everyone has the confidence to dress how they’d really like! Be cordial and be the more emotionally mature person. You’ve got this!

34. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 6:25PM UTC

    Are you really going to dig your heels in over your clothing? Read the room on this one if you want to keep this job for the next few months. Not sure my main goal would be to assert my fire brand in a doctor's office setting. You're no longer in the entertainment industry, you're in a medical professional setting. Keep doing you, but go in eyes wide open if you want to keep this temp role for any length of time. I promise you the doctor's office has already contacted your temp agency about this not being a fit.

35. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 10:01PM UTC

    Eh, wrong buttercup. Lol! I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated. So they contacted the agency to say I’m awesome ha!

36. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 9:03PM UTC

    I doubt anyone is expecting you to "dim your sparkle " but I do think there is an expectation of being a fit for the environment you are working in. I don't wear scrubs and sketchers into court.

37. Daneen ClarkApril 25,2024 at 11:04PM UTC

    Cheetah is pretty neutral for meetings, black and tan can't go wrong.

38. AnonymousApril 25,2024 at 11:09PM UTC

    All of this!

39. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:52AM UTC

    I wore a suit to a meeting in Silicon Valley and they looked at me like
    i was totally out of the loop. They wore t shirts. The reason they wear that attire is because they choose to focus on the “quality of the work”
    and can’t be bothered with frivolity— their brainshare is too valuable. . So by wearing formal attire I was showing that I was out of the loop. I’m still me, but now I wear jeans and a solid T with a jacket that’s “my style.” Sometimes there is hidden mindset behind the attire. Maybe studies show that patients feel safer in offices
    where folks wear certain clothes? I’m not sure but maybe there’s a certain optic?

40. Annetta MosesApril 26,2024 at 1:29AM UTC

    Professional business attire is often skirt/pant suit, dress, blazer sweater in shades of black, blue, grey, red in silk, linen, wool, polyester blend.

    Certain industries(banking, healthcare, insurance) tend to be more conservative than entertainment and advertising. You can wear a leather dress and be on the “edgy” in of professional attire and fit in very well in the entertainment industry and less so in healthcare.

    When you work you want to gel with the company and co-workers. Whether you stay or leave the decision is yours. But if you stay you may want to consider wearing one edgy piece, perhaps the leather boots with a silk/polyester dress.

41. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:11PM UTC

    only dress code is business attire. No jeans, sweats, uggs (yes uggs lol). Kill ‘em with kindness. My sister said the same thing. ??

42. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:26PM UTC

    The dress code here: which is written -business attire, suits blouse slacks. No sweats, no jeans uggs or open toe shoes. If my dress shirt has French cuffs , my blouse is animal print with a pussy bow or a leather blazer is crazy then by whose standards? I am just fine and always have been. Management does NOT have an issue with my attire. New supervisor complimented one of my outfits. I don’t need to or have to conform as my work ethic speak volumes. Attire icing on my fabulous cakes.

43. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 12:55PM UTC

    no one is trying to dim your ``sparkle`` LOLLLL i work in a doctor's office and every office i whent to , black pants , black shirt , with the medical vest over it,. sorry but you do NOT get to complain about how you have to dress at work , you sound like a petulant child. you are doing it on purpose and it is a choice YOU made to NOT fit in. so by all means , go be unemployed. you are there not to entertain but to work in a very professionnal medical environment.

44. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 1:32PM UTC

    Aren't you a peach?

45. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 2:57PM UTC

    One of the most actionable posts in this entire thread, IMO. This will ultimately boil down to how much the OP needs this job.

46. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 3:18PM UTC

    But she is not getting this feedback from the manager/administration but rather another secretary.

47. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 4:10PM UTC

    Exactly! Another secretary who sounds like a permanent employee. She's already established at this doctor's office and has credibility. The OP is just days into this assignment in an unforgiving culture.

48. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:57PM UTC

    OP here. Lol! I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated.

49. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:57PM UTC

    Sunshine. OP here. Lol! I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated.

50. Paulla Fetzek, MSEdApril 26,2024 at 12:56PM UTC

    I commend you for rocking your style! I'm not one to dance to the beat of the latest fashion trend.

    If your outfits align with the requirements of the company, then continue to be your authentic self. Animal prints can certainly be worn in a business environment. If you feel a shirt-dress is too much, perhaps an animal print shirt with a basic pencil skirt.

    I'm not good at fashion advice friend. I happen to hate dresses. ?

    Being the "new kid" stinks. As does dealing with cliques, though every company has them. I've been at my current job 21 years - and yet I remember my very first day. So any new person... I feel for them.

    Perhaps you could go to the person who made a comment about your clothes and ask them, "Since I'm new here, what would you recommend? I like my style, but do you have any suggestions for how I can make it suitable for here?"

    Doing so should either open communication, or keep them quiet.

    All the best!

51. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 1:24PM UTC

    Do not listen to a bunch of mean spirited and tacky women. You know exactly how to balance personal style and professional dress code so have at it. We live in a world of group think and maybe they need to step up their personal style. Being drab and uniform doesn’t equal being professional.

52. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 1:32PM UTC

    You do you. If you haven't been told by management that what you are wearing isn't right for the job, then ignore the mean girl comments - just go in there, do the job you are assigned and leave. If you feel you want to tone it down some and still keep your style, keep it to shoes (I have 2-3 pear of cheetah print - or is it leopard - casual shoes and a new pair of zebra-print Chucks - I also have a Chucks addiction...that is my style) or one article of clothing, or accessories.

53. JYJApril 26,2024 at 2:29PM UTC

    I’m always amazed at how some people never left the grade school yard. F-4K them! If you are dressed professionally, who cares?? Be you.

54. AnonymousApril 26,2024 at 2:56PM UTC

    The OP can be herself but she's getting REALLY strong messages that her attire isn't customary for the office setting she's in. Depends how much the OP needs this job and if she want's to risk losing it all over an outfit. Few of us have the luxury to give a middle finger to our employer over our clothing and enough wealth to lose jobs over leopard print. But that's just me.

55. Kirsten DiCarloApril 28,2024 at 12:26PM UTC

    Leopard suits aren't normally considered "professional", especially in a medical setting. The "dull my sparkle" comment is laughable. I'm all for being yourself, but dress code at work needs to be followed. She can sparkle all of her off-work hours.

    I'd suggest at least dialing the wild dress down a notch. Maybe a leopard blouse under a solid suit.

56. Leah AshtonApril 26,2024 at 4:32PM UTC

    why should you dress down? Unless it says no wild prints or colors in your work hand book, keep rocking what you wear.

57. Anne M GinsbergApril 27,2024 at 11:42PM UTC

    Exactly. Wear what you like! Something tells me that they’re jealous. Do they shop at W*lmart? There’s your answer. Pay them no attention. Come in, do your work well, and go home.

58. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:49PM UTC

    I see the clique thing but what I’m getting is the ringleader who if she sees me end of day waiting for elevator she will say to who ever is with her “let’s take the stairs”. Every time. Sighs and/or role their eyes when I walk in early in the morning. I still come in and say good morning because I had home training but this particular group ignores me. Adding after about 6 weeks I was offered a permanent role by the supervisor and I took it. During official announcement in a team mtg one of these co-workers actually asked why another temp wasn’t hired instead while people were still clapping. Supervisor said what she already told me when I was offered the role. She said she appreciated my professionalism and I am doing a great job. All this and I have not changed my personal style

59. AnonymousApril 27,2024 at 10:48AM UTC

    Management has no issue. This position has been vacant a while. Revolving door from my understanding. Supervisor has zero issue. Has complimented my work. It’s just I would say 4 women. Weirdly hostile. One in particular . I see the comments about killing with kindness. I can do that and ignore you as well.

60. AnonymousApril 27,2024 at 12:12PM UTC

    If management doesn't care, good!

    There will always be the nosey busy bodies out there. There are entitled ZERO consideration to your wardrobe- always will have an unsolicited opinion.

61. AnonymousApril 27,2024 at 12:30PM UTC

    If other secretaries are just being catty that’s up to you, but if they are genuinely telling you (and supervisors are telling you) your clothes aren’t appropriate for the industry you are now working in, you need to reconsider. A leather shirt dress sounds like you stick out in an odd way at a doctors office.

62. Dolores DuncanApril 27,2024 at 5:20PM UTC

    I don't consider an olive leat shirt dress to be business casual. Perhaps you should think of business conservative as more appropriate, especially for a Dr. Office. Another suggestion, look at the other employees dress, try to dress similar to them

63. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 12:16PM UTC

    Understanding the need to be yourself, a doctor's office temp job is probably not the best place to showcase this.

    I'd try to allow my wardrobe to blend in with others while illustrating a strong work ethic.

    JMO

64. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 12:58PM UTC

    I agree with a lot of what has been said re: reading the room. However, to those who are saying the office probably called the agency already and she might find herself unemployed- if her attire is really an issue, doesn’t the on-site manager have some responsibility to say something before it gets to the point of letting her go. I get that some of this should be known if she has significant experience in work world, but isn’t there some responsibility to help employees succeed if you want some stability in the role. Also, on the flip side, she has taken a temp job which indicates that she can’t afford not to work. I 100% agree with the comments that if she calls the agency she won’t get placed again. This is why temping sucks, if you have to, you gotta suck it up…

65. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 1:05PM UTC

    One other thing… it is never appropriate or acceptable to NOT acknowledge a Good Morning greeting.

66. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 1:26PM UTC

    Is there a dress code of some sort at the office? If it is business attire, you should consider if your attire is what they would consider business attire or maybe "club" attire. Business attire will differ across industries, so what is acceptable in one would be too formal or too edgy in others.

    I used to coach women who were entering or re-entering the workplace for the first time. Many didn't necessarily understand differences in dress code, and some were reluctant to adhere to a dress code because they didn't want to lose their personality. Others felt better if they wore something in which they were comfortable, even if it didn't fit the dress code. What I always told them was to find some way to incorporate your personality or your item of comfort into the dress code while still following it. Maybe you wear something that is similar to what the rest of the employees are wearing, but add in a colorful or leopard scarf and socks or leather boots to keep true to you.

67. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:43PM UTC

    I've Worked at brokerage firms and entertainment company. I don’t even go to clubs. I’m in suits with leopard or zebra blouses, 2 or 3piece. Leather blouse with polka dot pleated skirts for example. There’s a clique and a ringleader who if she sees me end of day waiting for elevator she will say to who ever is with her “let’s take the stairs”. Every time. Sighs and/or role their eyes when I walk in early in the morning. I still come in and say good morning because I had home training but this particular group ignores me. Adding after about 6 weeks I was offered a permanent role by the supervisor and I took it. During official announcement in a team mtg one of these co-workers actually asked why another temp wasn’t hired instead while people were still clapping. Supervisor said what she already told me when I was offered the role. She said she appreciated my professionalism and I am doing a great job. All this and I have not changed my personal style

68. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 2:23PM UTC

    Just my opinion

69. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 2:53PM UTC

    With all due respect, you are reading a lot into the OP’s posting.

70. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 4:51PM UTC

    This 100%. If they call the agency and let her go, which I completely understand is their prerogative, then they have to train someone else, etc, rather than having a rather simple conversation. Ultimately there are 3 sides to every story- your’s, mine and the true. This is one case where I would love to know the other side of the story…

71. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 5:47PM UTC

    Any possibility that the unfriendliness with the others in your office is only partially about your clothes?

    While working as a temp, there were workplaces that were very welcoming where I was one of the "team." I considered these people to be mature and secure.

    There were others, where no matter how hard I tried, I just wasn't "one of them" because I was only going to be there for a while. I got the impression that they were more insecure as a whole, cliquish, and didn't want to expend the emotional effort to include me. You mentioned a revolving door for the position, so maybe its a similar situation.

    That said, the company where I worked for quite some time was very conservative. If an employee didn't read the room to see that flamboyance doesn't "fit" the culture, it would have been addressed.

72. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:39PM UTC

    I see the clique thing but what I’m getting is the ringleader who if she sees me end of day waiting for elevator she will say to who ever is with her “let’s take the stairs”. Every time. Sighs and/or role their eyes when I walk in early in the morning. I still come in and say good morning because I had home training but this particular group ignores me. Adding after about 6 weeks I was offered a permanent role by the supervisor and I took it. During official announcement in a team mtg one of these co-workers actually asked why another temp wasn’t hired while people were still clapping. Supervisor said what she already told me when I was offered the role. She said she appreciated my professionalism and I am doing a great job. All this and I have not changed my personal style. She calls it snazzy

73. AnonymousApril 28,2024 at 8:37PM UTC

    Stick to industries and environments that allow for self expression through clothes, makeup, piercings and tattoos. I am pretty sure a doctors office isn't going to encourage the kind of expression you need.

74. AnonymousApril 29,2024 at 3:45AM UTC

    Wow.

75. AnonymousApril 30,2024 at 10:02AM UTC

    This was brutal to read because it lacked punctuation.

76. Hope FulApril 30,2024 at 4:07PM UTC

    Punctuation please!!

77. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 4:30PM UTC

    You’re absolutely right. I opened app and all the bs hit me first and I am extra in my temper as well as clothes. No excuse. And thanks I do appreciate the advice.

78. Carine GordonMay 30,2024 at 4:38PM UTC

    You know what then I apologize. I opened app and saw some messages and felt attacked. I will come for anyone who comes for me. I lumped your message along with some others. If it wasn’t meant the way I took it I can admit when I’m wrong. Adding that my day is pretty awesome so far though.

79. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:27PM UTC

    Only certain employees have issue. Supervisor offered me a permanent role2 months after I started. Said she appreciated my professionalism. Has called my style snazzy. ching Ching with my bling

80. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:29PM UTC

    Adding I took the offer.

81. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:48PM UTC

    Thanks. Supervisor calls me snazzy. Offered me a permanent role that I accepted. Said she appreciated my professionalism and I’m doing a great job.

82. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:53PM UTC

    Lol! I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated.

83. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:54PM UTC

    Lol! I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated.

84. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:55PM UTC

    zzzz

85. AnonymousMay 30,2024 at 9:59PM UTC

    Lol! I was offered a permanent role about 6 weeks later. I accepted in all my sparkle. Was told I’m doing a great job and my professionalism was appreciated. So both

86. AnonymousMay 31,2024 at 1:06PM UTC

    I didn’t delete it. Or my response after that. Maybe it was reported?

87. AnonymousOctober 28,2025 at 4:55PM UTC

    So it’s me and I have not been on this site in a good year. I just received an email and I clicked on it. Caught up with some of the comments. So not only have I not changed how I dress and conformed like I’m a sheep, I transferred to another dept making more money and March will be 2 years. And no, supervisor never had any issues on my attire and if she did, it was never mentioned. And I peeped the racism. To the lady who said I was a DEI hire, don’t you just wish I was to justify your sad little pathetic life?? You sound basic, Lonely and fat. I’m also a certified personal trainer. I can help you a bit. The other stuff, not so much. Don’t you know DEI was originally made for you?