Hi All,

Hi All,

I have been lurking for over a year, and finally wanted to post. I GOT A JOB OFFER LAST WEEK! I have applied for over 150 jobs, and received interviews for 10 roles, which I realize is a great response rate. But, it has taken me almost 1.5 years to find a new job after quitting my last one due to stress and burnout. The job market right now is very challenging, especially if you are seeking a remote position. And I have been very picky, looking at non-profit positions where I could make a difference.

Thank you all for your posts. I have sincerely appreciated reading the good and the bad and although I don't know any of you, I appreciate this community.

Keep up your persistence and positivity, even through the hard times. It will pay off.

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  1. Anonymous

    Also wanted to comment that 2 weeks ago I was asked to submit a one-way interview which I was SO pissed off about. I DID submit it, because I really needed a job. I received a request from them for an in-person interview, which I accepted before I received a job offer. I was able to cancel it today, but in doing so gave them the following reasoning:

    I'm sorry to cancel at the last minute, but I've just accepted another job offer so I won't be moving forward with your HR [redacted] position.

    I might have considered holding off on the other offer until we met, but I want to share why I decided not to do that. I found the one-way interview process very demeaning and dehumanizing. To ask that of someone, I feel, is not thoughtful or caring. But I have been seeking a position for over a year, and at that point a person becomes somewhat desperate and willing to do what it takes, even if it means complying with a request that seems unreasonable. And I know there were options if I couldn't do the one-way interview, but no one wants to be that difficult person in the beginning of an interview process.

    Your job description for this HR role mentions a few qualities you are seeking: thoughtful, empathetic, supportive. You also mention as part of DEI that "[Redacted] is committed to creating and maintaining a work environment free from discrimination, where all team members feel valued, respected, and included." If this is truly the type of person you want for this role, and the type of organization you strive to be, then I don't think a one-way interview is the way to promote and show that. And I certainly don't see myself as the right fit for this position given that I would not want to ask a job seeker to degrade themselves in this manner.

    I might suggest that a 15-minute phone screening with an HR representative might provide you with additional insight into a candidate, that might help you gauge whether they'd be a good fit for the position and if they seem interested. And it reduces the bias that is introduced when you are provided a one-way interview with someone old, fat, young, black, ugly, transgender, skinny, white, etc. or other qualities you can see on camera. Or, you can request people write their responses and return them to you.

    Anyway, I wish you the best in your search.

    And, I request that you please delete my interview from Workable and any other devices where the interview is stored.

  2. Anonymous

    "Degrade" feels a little intense, honestly, though I do agree that one-way interviews are not the most accessible/equitable option. So glad you found a job!

  3. Anonymous

    Thank you, I'm so thrilled for the new job! And agreed, degrade is an intense word, but I had other worse words that I really wanted to use but decided to be more respectful and kind.

  4. Victoria

    your response was very thoughtful. I hope that they took your words to heart.

  5. Anonymous

    Me too. My initial thought was to ghost them or show up to the interview with two middle fingers flying, but upon reflection I didn't think that would be helpful. :-)

    I think they have good intentions, and I certainly hope they consider how they run their recruitments. I think they are doing a disservice to themselves and candidates by requesting a one-way interview.

  6. Anonymous

    I have mixed feelings about the message you sent. On one hand, I want to applaud you. I really REALLY dislike those things and made the decision to respectfully decline any such requests and withdraw my application moving forward. On the other hand: it is a small world after all. I hope they will listen and review their processes...but on the other hand, employers don't like to be told what to do by candidates nor have their flaws pointed out.

  7. Anonymous

    I read your original post and your follow up responses. Wowee, you are one brave woman. But I do agree with you in some respect. That the one-way interviews are biased as hell. I mean, I've done it and thought wow, this is demeaning, biased and what if I don't "perform" well on camera. I'm not going to be a weather girl, or a news anchor, so what exactly are these people looking for? On one hand, I kind of applaud you to email them your feedback, though very strong, I hope this never bites you later. But on the other hand, I'm like yeah, she told them. I've learned this lesson in life, in my almost 40 years of working, and I'm almost 60 years old and have hired people for a living, never step on the toes of the ass you may kiss tomorrow. You never know. BUT I sense you are a strong person and can take it. I hope whatever your next job is, I think in HR?? you will probably be a strong advocate for women, anyone that doesn't look like the norm and support all genders, equality, and speak up for those who can't. Congrats on your new role and make a path for others to do the right thing!

  8. Anonymous

    Congratulations

  9. Cindy Glover

    Congratulations!

  10. Sara Trost

    That is awesome! Congratulations!!

  11. Anonymous

    I hope the new role is all you hoped for and more...thanks for sharing the love

  12. Anonymous

    That is fabulous news! Yay for you!

  13. Anonymous

    Congrats to you ?

  14. Anonymous

    Congrats! Thank you for sharing your story! Especially finding a remote position which is tough I think. I love this site and the community of it. It's a great place to hopefully read supportive words of encouragement. The market is brutal and good for you for sticking it out!! Whohoo! Time to celebrate!

  15. Anonymous

    Congratulations

  16. Anonymous

    Congratulations. I am in the same situation you were in. Rejection is still a hard pill to swallow but you must move on. Resilience is definitely needed at a time like this. Good luck in your new position.

  17. Anonymous

    Congratulations!! While this is not my story it is my husband's EXACT STORY! The job market is extremely difficult right now, however, consistency and perseverance is key. Good luck in your new role.

  18. Jennifer K. Boulet

    Congratulations on landing the job!!!

    I am on an emotional rollercoaster of being positive and proactive to devastation and deep depression.

    It has now been 11 months unemployed due to tech layoffs. As Brand and Markting Director I have had four offers for Fortune 500 companies. I revied al equipment to work remotely, background check cleared and the week before trh ejob gets put no hold due to budget constraints they. I have had the rug pulled out from under me all year long. My 401K is gone due to rent and now my lease is up for the fourth year, I was able to pay everything back in October, They want me to pay $200 more a month and go month to month which will automatically lead me to willingly vacate as part of the terms. I will be homeless with two kitties. How do I get noticed when my resume matches the job descriptions perfectly?

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