I've been at my current job for 4 months, and I hate it.

Anonymous

April 22,2023 at 5:15PM UTC

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I've been at my current job for 4 months, and I hate it. I feel like I've taken major steps back in responsibilities, autonomy, and growing desired skill sets. While I work for a large company, I can't find any roles that fit me. Is it okay to look somewhere else?

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AnonymousApril 22,2023 at 5:32PM UTC
Absolutely, look while you are currently working. The job market is tough right now so definitely look while still employed. You have to look out for yourself and be happy in your role!
Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition SpecialistApril 22,2023 at 8:14PM UTC
OF COURSE IT IS! You're not an indentured servant. Do what you need to do.
AnonymousApril 23,2023 at 1:22AM UTC
I sure hope so!
I feel very much the same way. My current job sounded great on paper but the reality is that it is just not a good fit. I have started applying to only jobs that fit 100% of my requirements. Good luck to you.
AnonymousApril 23,2023 at 4:30AM UTC
Sure it fine.
It's not the company's responsibility to align with your goals so it's up to you to find that great position.
KatApril 23,2023 at 3:45PM UTC
Why would you think it's not ok to find a better job? You're not happy, it's not a good fit, so move on. If you're worried about the dreaded "job hopper" stigma, that doesn't matter any more. Companies are more flexible about that than they used to be. Polish up that resume and find a better job!
AnonymousApril 25,2023 at 7:59PM UTC
Job hopper is my top concern. But, you’re right, employers are becoming more flexible to access good talent.
AnonymousApril 24,2023 at 1:02PM UTC
Of.Course. Look, who is wanting to stay in a job they hate. no value there.
AnonymousApril 24,2023 at 5:50PM UTC
YES! You're in the best position possible to have a job while you're looking.4 months is long enough to know it's not the right fit.
AnonymousApril 25,2023 at 2:58PM UTC
I'm in a very similar situation! I started looking for work while still working at the job I can't stand. Thankfully I've found work and I'm so happy knowing I'm leaving this place! My whole being is completely relieved . I can't wait to see what life feels like once I'm officially done! I hope the same for you.
AnonymousApril 25,2023 at 5:24PM UTC
Yes, it is. But as an alternative since it is a big company you could sit down with your HRBP and let them know things are not working for you. Let them know that you are open to other roles in the company that might be of interest. Most larger employers want to retain good talent especially in certain functions so this may be a bridge to something better in the same place.
AnonymousApril 26,2023 at 1:37PM UTC
I’m in the same boat! I can’t figure out if “this is how it is” or if this is just how it is now at a new job, but it concerns me that I’m bored 4 months in.