I just got another rejection letter from a job I applied for.

9 Comments

1. AnonymousSeptember 26,2022 at 8:31PM UTC

   I am so tired of being rejected and putting my creative energy into things that don't work out. I know its partially my fault for going after an unrealistic choice but I feel that if I had tried harder they would have considered me.

2. Joan Williams, Senior Talent Acquisition SpecialistSeptember 26,2022 at 8:44PM UTC

   If you're not a fit, you're not a fit. It doesn't matter how hard you try.

3. AnonymousSeptember 27,2022 at 11:13AM UTC

   Yes, rejections hurt but acceptance at the right job feels so much better! Hopefully, you understand that your worth is not determined by a job. Worth and income are two different things. And hopefully, you can pull out what you liked about that job and apply to similar roles. Remember, interviewing is a two way street! YOU need to like them just as much as they like you. It’s like ‘career-dating’. Don’t give up until you find the right one, and if you can afford to be single (not employed) for a little while longer, work on taking care of yourself and having a healthy mindset. You don’t want to end up in a job out of desperation or vulnerability. What are you looking for btw? There are so many talented women on this platform who can potential support you and help you find your next role. Best of luck in your search.

4. AnonymousSeptember 27,2022 at 12:27PM UTC

   right now I'm kind of looking for anything with a 50k salary.

   The position I applied for was a visual merchandising job at Bloomingdales. I'm a little burnt out from everything right now and just looking for something to pay the bills while I pursue other things.

5. AnonymousSeptember 27,2022 at 11:15AM UTC

   You probably would’ve hated the commute if it’s far from your house. The right job is more important than having any job. Yes there will be trade offs but make sure you make the ones that work best for you, not them.

6. Kathryn MontbriandSeptember 27,2022 at 12:50PM UTC

   I hear you - rejections feel like a bee sting (for me at least).

   It might help to make a document, folder, pile of papers that remind you how awesome you are. Past projects that were a home-run, notes and feedback from people, your own list of professional moments that you are really proud of. Reviewing this after you get a rejection will keep your mind focused on finding the RIGHT opportunity with a company that will be delighted to have you on board and benefit from all the goodness you know you will bring to the table.

7. AnonymousSeptember 27,2022 at 1:32PM UTC

   Rejections are the worst! And they can be so impersonal (those auto generated emails). I wish you luck on your job search!

8. Nicole DupuisSeptember 27,2022 at 3:53PM UTC

   I am sorry to hear you were rejected--the job search process is draining and your confidence can really take a hit. Make sure you are noting all of your strengths and abilities. Remind yourself about the journey you have traveled already and the experiences you have had. Talk to people around you that are a) successful and can give you some great pointers/advice and b) supportive and can give some words of encouragement. Lastly, don't let yourself wallow too long. It is ok to feel the hurt and acknowledge that it sucks to be rejected, but limit the time you give it. After that, move into the positive action space where you are moving on to the next opportunity :-)

9. AnonymousSeptember 27,2022 at 6:17PM UTC

   thanks for the positive replies, how do people keep up their confidence and energy about this type of thing?