I so appreciate this question and am eager to respond as I find myself in this exact situation. I work in a very fast paced environment where meeting deadlines and collaborating with folks across various departments occurs on a daily basis. Furthermore, on a quarterly basis it’s a madhouse as sales reps have to meet quarter end quotas and I assist in those efforts. In this particular field it is very common to experience burn-out within a year if you are really resilient - less than a year if you’re not so much.
I’m seeking (casually) a new opportunity but not in this area. I’ve had numerous interviews and a few offers; however, I have not accepted any offers. I find myself feeling “guilty” about actually leaving because I truly love my direct co-workers and my supervisor. For the first time, at least in a very long time, I feel a sense of teamwork. This genuine camaraderie has not only been greatly appreciated but allows for a tolerable work environment and causes me to pause when seeking employment elsewhere. Having worked in toxic environments in the past, being part of team and treated with mutual respect is not an area that I am willing to forsake in its importance.
Additionally, I work with a supervisor who is absolutely amazing. She advocates for us individually and as a unit/team. She encourages open dialogue without being punitive in her responses. For these reasons, I’ve found myself perhaps overly scrutinizing opportunities whereas in the past I may not have.
I use the story of The 3 Little Bears to describe my job search predicament: my last job was “too boring”; my current job is “too hot/intense”; I’m seeking a new opportunity that’s “just right.”
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