Ok I am on the job hunt after being let go without reason , I am broken to say the least , I have applied to several companies on line and them dropped my resume off in person, I have also spoken with them , how long should I wait before a re: approach I need to work, I am in a bad place I feel like I failed

7 Comments

1. AnonymousOctober 26,2022 at 1:42PM UTC

   First off, you did not fail. Whatever the reason, given or not, that job was not for you. Second, unfortunately, job hunting takes time. It's not on you, but how the company does it's hiring process. Keep contacting employers (I usually do so about a week after the initial submission, shorter if I've already interviewed with them) to let them know that you are interested. Good luck!

2. Brittany Wilson, Transformational Career CoachOctober 26,2022 at 1:46PM UTC

   I can only imagine what you must be going through. You are certainly not a failure and you are not alone. <3 If you ever need to follow up with a company, I recommend following up with them as early as 1 day after you sent your application. Even if they haven't looked at your resume yet, this will create a sense of urgency for the to do so.

   I also recommend letting everyone in your network know that you are looking for work, if you haven't already. This includes family, friends, old colleagues, and even your network here on Fairgodboss. Connections can go a long way. Best of luck in your job search; you are already doing amazing.

3. Amalie BishopOctober 26,2022 at 1:48PM UTC

   First of all, YOU are NOT a failure!! This situation is a gift in disguise, as it is an opportunity for you to transform and reinvent yourself. Don't wait! Just brainstorm ideas and changes you can make that can bring you closer to your desired life. What ideas resonate? Maybe have someone you trust help you revamp your resume.

   What are your dreams? Have you really given yourself permission to explore your highest purpose?

   This is an important time to become your own best friend and understand just how precious you are!! If you are lucky enough to have supportive loved ones around, accept their support. If not, then know it is because you have a vast well of inner strength that it is time to tap into.

   You are not alone in your situation-so many people know exactly how you feel! You CAN find a solution and a new path.

   What about freelancing or entrepreneurship? You can find all kinds of informative and motivational videos for free to help lift you up and spark ideas.

   This is a good time to contemplate your spiritual side . I don't want to push any more on that without knowing your perspective, but just know there is a whole world of support and resources in that realm.

   Sending you a virtual hug!!!

4. AnonymousOctober 26,2022 at 2:51PM UTC

   If there is a specific role you are applying to I would wait a week or two. If it is just a resume submission I would check their career page and follow up when you see a posting you're interested in.

   In the meantime register with a temp agency to work immediately.

   Please be aware that the economy has impacted many companies' plans for hiring so things are slower and most companies also suspend hiring this late in the year. That's why working temporary assignments is a great idea. Companies still need resources but don't always have the budget this late in the year to hire permanent.

5. Sarmi ParidaOctober 26,2022 at 2:57PM UTC

   You need to do a targeted job search on linked in by finding the names of companies you want to work for, connect with key execs in those companies and get yourself noticed. It takes time and effort but pays in the long run. Applying to jobs online is just like tossing your resume in the sky . ATS tools have keywords that will filter your resume out and will never make it to the pile of the recruiter. I am sorry if I sound pragmatic here , it is how it works today for middle to senior jobs and for most other jobs too.

6. AnonymousOctober 26,2022 at 3:37PM UTC

   You have not failed!! It was clearly not a good fit and be thankful you are no longer there so please do not beat yourself up.

   I would suggest a few things.

   1. Do things that make you happy, no matter how big or small. If it makes you happy, do it!
   2. I don't know one person who hasn't been let go during their career. You are definitely not alone.
   3. Re: job follow-up

   Give people at least two weeks to get back to you and then I would follow-up via email. Keep it professional.

   1. Do not become a victim because believe it or not people will pick up on your vibe. Read articles about being let go that will help you cope and empower you. Surround yourself with people who love you and in time you will gain insight and strength again. You are going to be great!
7. Shelly EdwardsOctober 26,2022 at 7:09PM UTC

   You have not failed. Sometimes these things just happen. Life changes. You are doing what you can to get back on track. I'd follow up about a week after dropping off my resume. Start with a checking in followup and go from there. Remember your need for a job does not always match their urgency to fill the role. It can be very frustrating, but it will happen if you keep trying. Good luck!!