Bad vibes or overthinking?

Anonymous

September 26,2022 at 1:36AM UTC

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Bad vibes or overthinking? Went to Salary last year, company never had issues with what I do day to day, outlived 2 managers and 2 coworkers. New hire has more experience and suddenly nothing is working well. Little issues are brought to my attention and they keep having me show her how to do more and more of my job. Last meeting they assured me I was “secure” but as I read this now it sounds more and more inevitable I’ll be outted. I won’t be able to jump into something near what I’m making now with a lot less flexibility. Am I looking at this wrong?

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AnonymousSeptember 26,2022 at 2:15AM UTC
No, you are going with your gut. It's human nature to become uneasy with what you're experiencing (whether it's true or not). So no, I don't think you're looking at this wrong. You're simply being aware - not paranoid. Perhaps polish up your resume (as we all should do), just in case.
AnonymousSeptember 26,2022 at 2:52AM UTC
Nope. Trust your instincts. Start looking because it will take you awhile to land something.
Shelly EdwardsSeptember 26,2022 at 2:35PM UTC
I would trust your gut. Did they sort of follow the same pattern with the managers and coworkers who left before you? If so, then you are probably correct and they are working toward managing you out. But before you just accept the inevitable, is there a way that you can be more proactive in getting more opportunities for increased sustainability? Have you spoken with your manager regarding increased project work and expressed your desire to be more valuable? Have you talked to them about your career goals and their vision for you position or your career track within their company? Don't just go down without trying first. Keep pushing to make yourself more valuable to the team. At the same time, I would start looking at other positions just in case. You are in charge of your life and your career. Make it happen.
AnonymousSeptember 26,2022 at 6:16PM UTC
Took over financing for new projects today as well as asked the owner how he’d like me to be more valuable.
Also asked to do ride alongs with each division for better understanding. Will try to do my best as usual. At least I know I’ve tried, but yes the pattern follows.