How do you take the time you need before a new job?

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November 12,2021 at 7:54PM UTC

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How do you take the time you need before a new job?

I just accepted a new job offer and put my two weeks in at work (yay!) but I'm still negotiating a start date with my new employer and kind of want to take a month off. Any tips to explain this to them?

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Barb HansenNovember 12,2021 at 9:32PM UTC
"I'm looking forward to getting started at Company X. I have previously scheduled vacation time, and I'm proposing a start date of XXX,"
Aubrey ArmesNovember 12,2021 at 10:42PM UTC
Simply ask for what you want and tell your truth! Tell them that you need to take a much needed break before getting started. When you start, you want to be fresh and ready to go on all cylinders. Without a break, you won't be able to bring your best self forward. It is the best case scenario for everyone involved. Reiterate your excitement and enthusiasm and how much you want to contribute to the team - AND - you need to recharge to be able to do that. Let me know if you need help role playing that convo!
Christy K. HanthornNovember 15,2021 at 1:26PM UTC
My concern is how quickly things can change. I once had a job offer that was postponed, then postponed again. In the end, it never came to fruition, and I stayed put. More recently, I accepted an offer on a government contract, and due to the speed of government, it literally took months to get on board. The start date kept getting pushed. If I were you, I'd try to get started as soon as possible. The more wiggle rooom, the more that can go wrong. Just my experience.