You are in education - are you a teacher? Multitudes of teachers are leaving the profession this year due to stress, low pay, low advancement potential, and bad attitudes from administration. If you are one of the multitude, how badly has it affected your health? You often hear old people say "if you have your health you have everything" and it's very accurate. If you are healthy, you are spending less time off work recovering from your job. If you are healthy, you are spending less of your money on the pharmaceutical industry. If you are healthy, you are not drinking regularly or frequently to cope with the stress of your job. If you are healthy, you don't have to miss work to see a doctor. Now consider what you are currently doing to cope with the job you have RIGHT NOW. Is your blood pressure high? Do you have glaucoma? Do you have depression or an eating disorder? Are you drinking on a regular basis? What is your diet like? Is it balanced, or are you eating a plethora of fast food because you don't have the time or energy to cook? Do you have the time to explore your hobbies to enrich your own mind and restore your own energy level? For instance, I was transferred to a different school building six weeks before the pandemic shut America. I loved the kids and my co-workers, but I HATED my administrator, because she was a bully. The last week of school she phoned me (we were working remotely, so I was at home) and berated me for 90 minutes on the telephone about how worthless I was as an employee. My blood pressure escalated to the point I thought I was going to have a massive stroke. It's the height of the pandemic, so I can't even go to the ER for help. I took to my bed, and drank plenty of water to reduce my BP. Six weeks later, I went to see the building director and told him I wasn't coming back in the fall - I couldn't work with or for that woman again. He referred me to HR, and I'm STILL working in that organization, but I don't ever have to work with the bully again. Taking care of yourself is YOUR priority. That means dealing with stress in positive ways (I'm spending the summer preserving food and quilting), getting exercise, and eating a balanced diet of food that isn't going to expand your waistline. I asked a lot of questions that only you can answer, and to which I don't need to know the answers. If working in education isn't working for you right now, then go with grace. If your new job doesn't work, then you can always go back into the classroom as a sub - Goodness knows districts can't hire anyone to sub. Whatever your choose, best wishes.
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