I started a new role a few months ago.

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October 26,2021 at 2:03AM UTC

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I started a new role a few months ago. There have been a lot of unexpected surprises about the organization's structure and future direction which differ from how the role was presented during the interview process. I'm feeling misled. Any suggestions to cope with "buyer's remorse"?

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SrPM-SFOctober 26,2021 at 4:09AM UTC
If you don’t see a future for yourself look for another job.
AnonymousOctober 26,2021 at 6:41PM UTC
I'm sorry to hear that you are feeling mislead, and the company you are working for isn't what was presented to you. What types of changes are you noticing, and how are they affecting your work/role?
Hilarie CoxOctober 26,2021 at 7:49PM UTC
I am going through a similar situation. The role is not a good fit. Each day is very frustrating and I decided it is more important to find a role I am better suited for. I have chosen to start looking again. Be prepared for having a good explanation of what's not working and what you are searching for. Life is too precious to do anything other than what you love to do.
AnonymousOctober 31,2021 at 12:38PM UTC
I am going through a similar situation. I would first ask to speak to your boss, or hiring Manager who gave you the information on structure and future direction. You owe it to yourself, and future candidates for the company to be forthcoming and transparent.
AnonymousNovember 24,2021 at 3:48AM UTC
I'm sorry to hear that this happened! I would suggest to keep a journal of one or two things that occur each day that surprise you in a negative way and to then come up with one or two solutions to that occurrence. After a few months, you may find trends and then be in a position to have a discussion with your team and/or leadership for how to improve matters. Good luck!