I joke I have a wagging tail, because where I go, so do my dogs. My current dogs are 'Shambles' his special skill is to channel his inner husky and try and howl in the background of my MS Teams meetings when certain staff members speak. And 'Giblets'- who is an absolute hooligan and puppynado, her special talents include parading dirty laundry in the background of my MS Teams meetings.
I also have cats. The eldest 'Wolfey' is also keen on joining in meetings. He is 18, it takes him ages to climb onto my shoulders, and after all that effort I tend to let him stay there. Even if he tends to meow loudly every time, I unmute my microphone to speak!
I lost my confidence during the pandemic; I am deaf and immune deficient. Technology changed so much, so did the world of work... and I felt left behind. Much of my recovery mentally has been through taking on voluntary roles in our company DEI. I have grown so much in the process. I write for our employee group for disabled employees, often about inclusion, equity, or reasonable adjustments (I am in the UK) and sometimes my 'worst pets in the world' feature too.
I had not realised until about a year ago, that my pets have brightened many colleagues’ days. As much as I have inwardly cringed at some of their antics in meetings or wondered about the wisdom sharing their antics with our members, they do make people smile.
The first time I was invited to our company headquarters, I felt very overwhelmed. I felt like a very small (and deaf) fish. Over the noise I heard a voice call ‘How are the dogs?’ I did not know where the speaker was, or who they were at that point, but my response is always the same ‘They are awful! Did you hear that Shambles has…’. A couple of other people in the foyer turned (I recognised them from our company communications) they joined in chatting about an article I wrote about ‘Shambles’, he never questions why life delivers him tennis balls, he just enjoys chasing them whenever he can. In that moment I felt accepted and that I belonged… due to my mentally unstable, badly behaved senior canine and his love of smelly tennis balls.
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