I am an experienced sales and program manager and a recent MBA graduate, yet I find myself struggling to find a job. Despite my qualifications, my resume is not getting any responses, and I haven't worked since December 2022 after resigning from a job that didn’t align with my expectations. This lack of response is taking a toll on me, and I’m feeling increasingly discouraged. My financial situation is becoming dire, and I need some uplifting advice and encouragement. I’m feeling quite overwhelmed and unsure of what steps to take next.

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1. AnonymousJune 13,2024 at 1:17PM UTC

   Not good! Anything has its attractions. Some people see this as a good attitude from what you currently have. What happened to you leaving your job, showed what older people called that you learned the hard way. When you feel uncomfortable in a job, first you have to see what is attractive or easy from that job. Second, think that you are working there you are not volunteering that job. Therefore, you have to enjoy your job.

   on the other hand, when you really want to leave your currently job, you have to have another job waiting for you.

   good luck

2. Cheryl ParkinsonJune 21,2024 at 2:40PM UTC

   I appreciate your straight forwardness. It’s true that every job has its attractive aspects and it's essential to find and appreciate them. However, sometimes the negatives outweigh the positives, and staying in an uncomfortable situation isn't always the best choice for one's mental and emotional well-being.

   Leaving my job was a very tough decision, but I learned a lot from the experience. My husband supported this process. I did try to find things I enjoyed about the job, but sometimes it's just not the right fit, and that's okay. It's important to recognize when it's time to move on.

   You're absolutely right about the importance of having another job lined up before leaving. In hindsight, I could have planned that transition better. It's a lesson learned, and next time, I'll make sure to have a solid plan in place before making any big moves. I do have a business that has come out of this so there is light in the tunnel.

   Thanks for your perspective. It’s a good reminder to weigh all options carefully and plan ahead for any major changes.

   Thank you

3. Maggie SoldanoJune 18,2024 at 12:47AM UTC

   Cheryl, I feel you. I'm so sorry you're going through this. A dire financial situation certainly limits your options. But if you can swing it, find yourself some support — therapist, coach, recruiter — that can help you remember why you're awesome. Connect with your alma mater to see if they can support your search — they love saying that x% of their MBA graduates are working. And do one thing every day that buoy's your self-esteem. You got this!

4. Cheryl ParkinsonJune 21,2024 at 2:30PM UTC

   Maggie thank you for the advice. I do have a therapist and a mentor now. I have had a lot of trauma that triggers me during this down time. I was broken for all that time. I walked away because I have my integrity, and in all my years of working I am very customer centric. On this project they treated their client horrible and that is not acceptable by any means but you are not blaming me for something that you have done and been doing prior to me getting there. I will never sell my soul, nor integrity for any job. My mind set was attracting negative outcomes. I had to heal from some personal trauma's (mental health is real), and losses. Everything happens for a reason this was my season that God had me in to sit down and be still. You have to learn why you are in your season in order to see your reason and understand it to get out. Thank you for your encouraging words and advice.