My office manager is retiring the end of the year.

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November 9,2022 at 9:38PM UTC

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My office manager is retiring the end of the year. There are 6 of us in the office the hiring manager has indicated that if I apply I will get the job. Problem is I don't want it. Should I go ahead and tell him that in no uncertain terms or wait until he doesn't see my name on the list of candidates?

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Cyndi RosenblattNovember 9,2022 at 10:12PM UTC
I would thank him for his encouragement and support, but explain that you are happy with your current level of responsibility and aren't interested in a promotion at this time. He may be discouraging his 2nd choice from applying if he thinks you are going to be his successor. Or he may need to plan out the new hire earlier if you are the only internal choice. Congratulations on the vote of confidence, regardless. That says a lot about how you and your work are regarded.
Gaby CadenaNovember 9,2022 at 10:44PM UTC
Wow!
Seems like your talents and skills are being recognized. However, if the position is not something you wish to pursue, communication will be the best way. You may take the initiative and communicate how grateful you are for the opportunity, but at this time, it does not align with your current goals. Good luck!
Tracey PilkeyNovember 10,2022 at 12:23AM UTC
I would tell him before he sees the list as he obviously wants you for the role. Tell him that you appreciate the opportunity and provide the reason why you do not want the position however offer another member of staff you feel would be well suited and obviously this also gives you the benefit by suggesting who you would be working for. Honesty is always best policy
Crystal HowellNovember 10,2022 at 2:07PM UTC
Be honest with him, think twice you will be able to make changes to make it a better place and get a raise, and have it on your resume, stay about 6 months to a year and leap to a bigger firm. Experience matters, why not get paid!
AnonymousNovember 12,2022 at 2:28PM UTC
Agree with the comments suggesting communicate with him.
Not everyone will pick up on the not so subtle your name not on the list - he might come around and remind you. Your career is your business - you don't need to feel bad for not wanting what other people want for you, or worry about their reactions, too much. Trust your self. I trust you - I think you know exactly why you don't want his job. And I love the suggestions below for ways of graciously declining - those are elegant and i think that's a great approach, a great way to be.