How to navigate2 job offers simultaneously-( after already accepting one ) Looking for some Mid -Senior level advice.

How to navigate2 job offers simultaneously-( after already accepting one ) Looking for some Mid -Senior level advice.

I recently accepted an offer and am now working for the company almost 2 months in.

another company I had been interviewing with had some delays so now my final interview is next week . This company pays about 10k more and is a better path for my career.

I know I’m jumping ahead but if offered, I’d like to leave the company I am at . I know they will be very upset and I will burn a bridge.

has anyone gone through this before -how did you navigate it ?

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  1. Kinga

    I have seen this several times, I was in the ream after these new colleagues left the company during probation time. It is not a huge problem, you are not as important as you think, they can cover the workload until they found someone new. Do not worry, just follow the path you think is best for you. Having an interview while not depending on this job offer makes you much more relaxed and self confident, your chances to get the second contract are quite good.

  2. Anonymous

    Thanks !

  3. GirlBossanova934974

    I would not get too concerned for now. You do NOT have another offer in hand. In the meantime, you be well advised to thoroughly check out the company in final interview stage. Look at all their reviews on Glassdoor. Go through Linkedin. Are their financials in order? Large turnover?

  4. Anonymous

    First of all congratulations!

    I would want to better understand the delays at the other company. Are they an unorganized mess? Did they hire someone else and it didnt work out or was it legitimate like the hiring manager got sick and went on leave?

    You need to focus on what's best for your next steps. Just make sure the grass really is greener.

  5. Anonymous

    I was at the end of an interview process with one company and the other one was the very beginning and they were interviewing a lot of candidates so it was a lengthy process . Not because of any internal delays .

    im not sure if the grass is greener - it’s very high risk to be honest

  6. Golaio Rocha

    Just go ahead and do the interview, and only leave once you have a confirmed offer in hand. Make sure you have confirmed offer before resigning, since the job market right now is quite unstable and a lot of things can happen. Wishing you the best in getting the path you want. https://rocketgoalio.io

  7. Anonymous

    Honestly, there is no good way to navigate it, and, you also need to do what is best for you. Agree with the others — don’t give notice until you have a signed offer and have cleared background checks and know for SURE that you will be going to the new company.

    • A few years ago an employee at my company resigned after accepting an offer elsewhere. He sent out a widespread goodbye and thank you email to a ton of people. Then there was an issue with his background check and the new company rescinded his offer. Because he had already resigned, loudly, with us, he couldn’t get his old job back, and had to scramble to find something new.
    • We had someone start a job with us a few years ago; worked for 2 weeks or so, then resigned because he got another offer with a company that wasn’t going to require him to relocate (we had him in temp housing). It absolutely burned the bridge with everyone that had met him, AND, it was still probably the right choice for him.
    • I recently hired someone I had worked with in the past. She signed our offer, cleared the background check, and gave notice. Her former company countered with more flexibility. It was a tough decision and she decided to stay with them and let us know 2 weeks before her start date that she wasn’t going to start with us after all. I appreciated that she let us know with our req still open so that we could immediately go back out to talk to more candidates. Did she burn the bridge? No — I have worked with her before and also respect some of the personal situation that led her to make the decision she did. Would I hire her again in a competitive market? Also no — unfortunately, I need someone I can count on, and backing out after accepting an offer is not something people will quickly forget. Would I hire her again if I’m having a hard time finding a candidate? I’d consider it.

    So, basically — don’t do anything until you have a signed offer and cleared background check. Transition stuff well so that the team isn’t left in the lurch. Try to explain the why, of why for you and your career, this was the better path. Don’t talk about the 10k (if it was just 10k driving the decision, you could probably get your current company to counter).

  8. Anonymous

    I negotiated my very best opportunity and wished my employer well. You clean up your desk and head for the door. This is not burning a bridge......it's being professional.

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