I am struggling to find a recruiter that will get back to me.

I am struggling to find a recruiter that will get back to me. I think the market is so saturated it is becoming harder and harder to represent yourself especially when you are still working a full time job (and are raising two toddlers). Any suggestions to get picked up by someone?

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  1. Regina Brown

    Find someone and have a one-on-one talk with that person.

  2. SPQ

    My rule of thumb is that if I send out 75 resumes with no response, either I need to overhaul my resume completely or I am not applying for the right postings.

    Bump this number to 150 if you're applying for remote-only jobs.

    Lower this number to 50 if the job is specifically hiring in your city (~1.5 mil. population).

  3. Ebony Murphy

    No. But good luck!!

  4. Anonymous

    What do you mean by “picked up by?” Recruiters work for companies, not candidates. And even when I have applied for jobs handled by a recruiter, I have never seen evidence that I am “in their network” for other jobs.

  5. GirlBossanova934974

    Recruiters contact you when they have a role which they feel might be a good fit your skillsets. They got paid by employers. Most staffing agency personnel get most of their compensation based upon commissions paid by those employers. Your job is to make sure your resume or resumers are up to date and can appeal to the most number of recruiters based upon keyword searches. If you have skillsets which are wanted, you will be hearing from recruiters.

  6. Barbara M.

    My present job went through a recruiter. To me, it’s about working smarter. Something that can help right now is making sure your resume and cover letter are doing more of the heavy lifting for you. In crowded applicant pools, clarity matters more than volume. Recruiters often spend seconds, not minutes, deciding who will best serve their client. What helps me improve visibility is providing outcomes and impact, not just responsibilities tailored to the top 1/3 of my resume and using my cover letter to express why me, connecting the dots quickly to the role I am applying for. Hope these suggestions help you going forward.

  7. Marie Mahon

    I understand and feel like I am going through the same thing - but as a few people have mentioned and I think it important to remember is that the recruiters work for companies and not people. So unless they see your resume and are a fit for what is on their desk, they won't respond. It's frustrating but true. I try to connect and follow them because some are helpful on posting jobs and links. There isn't a good system that I have found for the candidate - most "coaches" are going to give you advice on how to search but honestly not help you search. So I would try and limit interactions with those.

  8. Anonymous

    It doesn't work that way. Take a moment to identify the types of recruiters out there. Depending upon your field and level of experience and the types of recruiters (external) in your area of expertise that service your area the way YOU work with them may differ. For example, if you are Executive level often a firm (3rd party headhunter) will market you to their clients. Usually they have established clients and for them their work is not commissioned. They work for the client on a flat rate or paid upfront regardless of the outcome, often used for C level or other leadership roles. Those types will gladly represent you to their clients and will work hand in hand to find you a new role.

    Other external recruiters paid only upon the successful placement of a candidate, (mid-level or other) they work on contingency (commission based- aka sales) so unless you fit what they are working on there is really no relationship and they work for free if you are not a fit. Also since many don't have exclusive rights to the roles they might be working on they will only engage with you if you fit what they have a work order on and if the company does not want to pay a fee you will be blocked for 1 year for hire because they would owe that company a fee should you be hired after they present you. They march to the tune of the employer NOT the candidate (you). I assume you fall into that category. Also if they are contingency (commissioned) they only get paid for their work if the company hires you so if you are not what the company wants then you get nowhere, and they are not likely to even engage.

    If you apply to a company directly the in-house recruiter (in this current work climate many companies have slimmed down their internal teams) will screen you for fit against the hiring managers requirements. If they get hundreds of thousands of applicants you might be lost in the shuffle. Often those recruiters are just air traffic controllers (screeners) for what the needs are so you are in or out. They usually don't have much clout with decision makers unless they are more seasoned or the company gives them authority to weigh in.

    A suggestion would be to target companies that interest you make a list. Apply directly even if there are not open roles.

    Write a thoughtful cover note about why the company is of interest to you and then follow up in a week. Spend an hour each day on this and you should reap good results toward a great new role that you have sourced yourself. Keep a thorough spreadsheet of where you applied, what day, who you sent it to, add in the URL of the role if one exists. Keep that close at hand so you are prepared if you get a random call. These days searches can take 6-9 months so be prepared for a bit of a slog to get where you want to go. Good luck.

  9. Krystin Morgan

    Because I'm a recruiter, I just want to chime in and echo what a few others said - recruiters work for companies, not candidates. That means there's not really a "getting picked up by a recruiter." Instead, companies hire recruiters to fill specific positions for them. If you're a fit, great! If not, the recruiter can't really do much for you.

    What I would recommend is going on LinkedIn and searching for something like "[job title] recruiter [location]" and seeing who pops up. Most recruiters share on their profile the types of roles they fill, so you can then reach out if they recruit for your industry and get onto their radar. Then when they have open roles that meet your skill set, they'll already have you in the database to reach out. Good luck! :)

  10. Maria Felton

    Good day-You can contact this company and they will try to assist: www.kaptivative.com

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