First, you got this. I was laid off three times in three years, most recently in April. I'm getting pretty darn good at it. So my advice is coming from a real BTDT place. Each time I was laid off, I got a better, higher paying position. I'm also lucky that I got severance each time, with increasingly better packages. If only every break up came with a check... My advice:
-Being laid off can feel shameful, as though it's a statement about you personally. It's not. You should openly and confidently state that you were a part of a round of layoffs due to downsizing.
-Understand that **NO ONE IS JUDGING YOU FOR BEING LAID OFF** In fact, it's super normal in the corporate world, and recruiters take it with a grain of salt. The recruiter for my last position had ALSO been laid off a couple of months earlier, and was on his third week of internal recruiting in a completely new industry.
-Speak positively about your old company. You were disappointed because of how much you were loving the work, but understand that the company had to make a difficult, but necessary, business decision. (Because that's what it was. A financial business decision)
-If you fell into your last position, you might not have a LinkedIn account. If not, set that up ASAP. I've found my last two roles there, and it allows recruiters to find you too.
-There's a "statistic" out there that men apply to jobs if they meet 60% of the qualifications, but women won't apply unless they meet 100%. While this isn't statistically correct, it IS directionally correct. Many women feel like they need to meet nearly all of the qualifications, requirements, and preferences listed, and this holds us back.
For many companies, esp larger ones, job descriptions are just templates that get posted for every position that will share the same title, even if the day-to-day work, responsibilities, and individual team needs are radically different.
Think of job descriptions as a kid's Christmas present wish list, not the ingredient list for a bread recipe. Your 6 year-old might include a go-kart and $4000 gaming set up on the list, but he knows he's probably going to get the smaller ticket items instead. On the other hand, if you want to bake authentic baguettes and don't have any flour or yeast, it's going to be a problem.
-Years of experience is very commonly flexible. You'll often see numbers like 3yrs, 5yrs, and 10yrs experience. Why never 4 or 6 years? My personal interpretation is that 5 years means they don't want to teach you the fundamentals of what the job entails, how to do the basics, or how to work in a corporate environment (like they might with a new college graduate). They expect you know how to do the fundamentals of the role, and are building more advanced knowledge, but you aren't an expert in your field, and they (of course) will need to train you on the way that job is done at their company.
**ABSOLUTELY apply to those 5yr experience roles!!**
Did I mention that you got this? 'Cause you do. Feel free to message me if you find yourself in need of moral support.
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