I may be in the minority, but I much prefer this method over being ghosted. It shows effort and a personal touch. It also gives me the opportunity to request feedback - resume, interview, or otherwise.

I may be in the minority, but I much prefer this method over being ghosted. It shows effort and a personal touch. It also gives me the opportunity to request feedback - resume, interview, or otherwise.

In one instance, I was able to provide interview feedback about the interviewer. The interviewer had a habit of asking the question and then adding a clarifying statement before I could answer; and in doing so, changed the context of the initial question. In doing so, this changed my answer or had me over-elaborating to try to satisfy all points. My personal takeaway post-interview was that I didn’t feel I’d provided direct and concise answers. - which matched the interviewers feedback.

This made me instantly feel better because I then knew (had I been offered and accepted the role) that we would have a communication issue as hiring manager and employee.

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  1. Anonymous

    Good insight. Remember that you are also interviewing your manager and the company. If you are suffering financially, you could work contract until you get a role with which you would be comfortable. Life is too short to settle for an uncomfortable position unless that is your only option.

  2. Anonymous

    When were you able to give that feedback? At the end of the interview or did you reach out to talent acquisition?

  3. Myla Dixon

    When HR called to let me know I would not be getting an offer.

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